My lil mans starting nursery and i know hes going to cry which is making my anxiety bad any tips anyone plz x

[Amandasullivan12]

Anxious for nursery

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Hello

O what a lovely little man , I would want to keep him at home with me , with a cute face like that it must be so hard to stay firm when you need to but we have to

I had one that cried every single time , woke us in the night crying after 2 that went to School fine I did not know what had hit me !

It can be a case no they don't wan't to go , and so they try it on and bless them my Son has admitted it finally he used to have me on and he is now 26 but I would believe him but they will do everything they can not to go and it tears at your heart strings seeing them so upset as it is a Mothers job to make them feel safe and protected and for me I felt I was letting him down yet I wasn't , I would have let him down had I not got him there

So all I can say is you might have to ride the storm , it might not be a storm , try and make it exciting , a small treat maybe if he is good and above all remember that no matter how upset he is , you will feel crap possibly but what you are doing is for him and sometimes that hurts

Again though looking at the pic full of cuteness it is not going to be easy , but you can do it

Take Care x

[Amandasullivan12 in reply to Hidden]

We shall see lol hes adamant he dont want to x

[Hidden in reply to Amandasullivan12]

Well he looks like his Mum so personality wise I wonder who he may have taken after x

[Amandasullivan12 in reply to Hidden]

Probably me 🤣🙈 x

[Hidden in reply to Amandasullivan12]

Just maybe you are right x

[Likeabadstorm]

He is sooooo adorable! I cried when my lil one went to pre-k last year. That was hard and he didn’t want to go. He is attached to me, like I am to him. Eventually he will make friends and find it easier and more enjoyable, but your heart will hurt I know through this process. Even still with school he always would choose to be home with me and not go to school. Somedays he was ok to go but still said he likes being with me better. It’s one of those things that pulls at your heart strings. Best of luck to you and that handsome little guy.

[Amandasullivan12 in reply to Likeabadstorm]

Aww thanks for the reply see hes my third my daughter cried for a few weeks but for some reason this seems harder maybe because hes my last or ive got softer as i got older but its giving me anxiety.i shall just go with it and see how he gets on x

[Likeabadstorm in reply to Amandasullivan12]

I wish you and him the best. He’s my one and only so it was so hard. They grow up too fast.

[Hidden in reply to Amandasullivan12]

It is because he is your last and they are always your baby no matter how old they are x

[Daniellesparkles]

Aww it's okay ❤️ there is no shame in crying it's going to be Ok

[Sasical]

Oh my God, he's sooo cute. My daughter is 11 but I remember like it was yesterday her first day at nursery. She cried but I cried a lot more! I remember walking down the street being thankful that I had big sunglasses on haha.

With time I have learnt with my daughter that without meaning to we project our fears on to them. So, if you feel happy and relaxed that he's going he'll pick up your vibe but also the other way around.

It's sad because they grow up so quickly but just think about the fact that you'll have a little bit of me time which is also important.

Enjoy every minute that you are with him x

[Amandasullivan12 in reply to Sasical]

Thank you i know he will get used to it but middle one she cried for a few weeks then she was fine it just feels harder this time around im not sure why.

But thank you for the advice i will definitely try to be positive about it. X

[Natsteveo]

omg he absolutely melts my heart ❤ hes such a cutie pie I bet he smashed it babe he will have all the girls chasing him he be 2 busy fighting them off lol aww I remember my daughters first day at nursery even though she's 23 now 💖 I cried so bad she was OK after 2 days then she told me to go home lol 😆 bless him he a strong one lime his mum im sure he will b just fi e babes xxx

Love nat

[Amandasullivan12 in reply to Natsteveo]

Aww thanks hun hes not starting till Monday so hopefully 🙏🤞 he will be ok xxx

[Want2BHappy3]

Adoreeble...this may sound Harsh to you, but it worked for Me, my daughter cried and cried I was told to Just LEAVE because they will know that this is what they do to get You to stay. The next day she didn’t cry because she knew that this was going to Happen. Or this will Just DRAG ON...Goid Luck 👍😷🙏