Anxiety sucks

[tiffany1979]

Some days my anxiety is worse then others. When my fiancé is at his house it's always worse because I'm wondering what he's doing or where he is or who he's with. I know i have nothing to worry about but because my marriage before him was so bad it makes it so hard to trust I wish it would just stop no matter how hard I try it's the same feeling over and over again and it sucks. My fiancé tries to tell me over and over again he's not my ex husband and he wouldn't do what he did but the thought is always is the back of my head.

[ECole97]

I have a similar situation. My boyfriend broke my trust big time, had been lying to me about doing drugs for months. He never was around me when he did them, so i didnt know until months later when i caught him. I tell you, it has been sooo hard to regain trust of him. I am always wondering where he is, i always check his wallet when he comes home, sneaking around going through his phone. Thankfully he has been sober for 4 months. But i still get anxiety when he goes to friends houses, or even just goes anywhere without me. I feel bad because i cling to him, and watch his every move. I just wish i could go back to whrn things were normal and i didnt have to worrh