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I'm currently working as a Barista, working 12hrs no day off, for real it's driving me insane and I feel headache whenever I deep think about my future, living in life with no girlfriend no real friends it's earth grave💔🥹....it's a long story but I really need help. thanks

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I feel for you, both my brother and me have done 12 hr shifts and know how hard it is

I have to go out but write later

Don’t give up. There are better opportunities waiting for you. Just matter of time

Love sometimes takes time and it is waiting game

Really tough choices you made but your doing your best that you can

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hypercat54

You are working 84 hours a week> Wow!

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Shnookie

I’m so sorry that you have to go thru this. I’ve been working 7 days a week for the last two and a half years. Not 12 hour shifts, but it’s becoming more of a challenge. My regular job is from 3 PM to midnight M- F. I understand the financial needs and obligations. Is there a way for you to go online and look for another type of employment with competitive salary and fewer hours. I’m always here 4 U. Hugs S

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Eddy0 in reply toShnookie

Shnookie it's my first to work abroad, and my education level doesn't qualify me for another job, though I know how to write speak but they need documents, if you know any cafe drive thru free with job you can direct me to them, thanks

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Eddy0

Thanks 👍

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Shnookie

I wish I could help you. I live in the U.S. I’m not sure about the documentation process here.

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Now am willing to work on any job as long as I get paid, am creative and hardworking person, I can work under pressure

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I'm sorry to hear that you're working hard at a young age but trust me, it'll pay off soon. It's better than not having one.

In this modern era, it's common not to have real friends or GF/BF relationship in early 20s. You're normal.

Instead, you can try to focus on having hobbies that you can enjoy during your work hours as well, like reading a good, lighthearted novel or drawing doodles in a sketchbook.

You're just starting out in your young adulthood so relax and take it easy, my friend. 😁

For now, prioritise your well being by engaging in self-care activities whenever you can because that's more important that friends and relationships.

Try to join online communities based on your interests and there you’ll find people you can easily befriend.

Keep going and enjoy your life. There's no need to rush things or worry about the future.

Everything will be okay. 😊

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