Lonliness

[Sweet_nothing]

My family especially ny mother has been giving me a hard time today she called me a psycho I'm so alone no one cares what she says to me lol

[Agora1]

Welcome to this community Sweet_nothing... When it seems as if no one cares,

know that we do as well as understand the loneliness you feel. May I ask are you

still living at home? Are you under 18 by any chance? Why does the family think

you are psycho? it sounds like no one understands what you are going through.

Please reach out to us for help and support. We are here for each other xx

[Agora1]

Hi dear, I'm back again. Been thinking about your situation and feel the pain

and the loneliness. I once too, felt looked down by my the family as well as friends.

No one understood what I was feeling and struggling with. People want to see

others get over the issue and move on. Even my own mother would put me down

when I couldn't go places because of my Agoraphobia. Things like "Agora always

takes the easy way out"...it wasn't easy. I would cry in being misunderstood the one time I called the Paramedics for help because I felt sooo bad, I could

see my daughter motioning to the paramedics in making a "coo coo" sign with her

hand. Talk about loneliness and hurt.

We're here for you. I didn't have a forum when I was going through my struggles.

But I did conquer the fear and anxiety. We have to do it for ourselves and no one

else. My best to you You are not alone xx

[Tealpillow in reply to Agora1]

I feel that 100%. Both my husband and 12 year old daughter call me crazy and he tells her to be careful around me because I’m “sensitive”. It feels bad being judged by family. I try to use these moments as teachable lessons for my daughter to be compassionate but it’s like talking to a brick wall. 😖

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My mother also has depression but doesn’t seem to entirely understand how I feel and used to call me “sad sack” when I was really down. So I know it’s not easy living with people who don’t understand.

I don’t have many friends (for the most part, co-workers) and feel isolated. Send me a message if you’d like to talk.

[catsrock]

Your mother sounds very toxic. I hope you can detach from her comments and know that you are a person who deserves love. I have a difficult relationship with my mom so I get it. I have had to learn to put up a lot of boundaries with her. I hope today is better for you.