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I've held on to him for so long,

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How am i going to let him go? Because at first it was okay, now it feels like an unbearable dark cloud that's coming overhead.

But i know when I'm not wanted or needed anymore.

I will be okay. I will be okay.

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Agora1

Yes Shanm2 you will be okay. Of course it hurts. Your heart is broken.

Time and time alone will help heal your pain. Sending you a gentle hug :) xx

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Shanm2 in reply to Agora1

Thank you Agora! I really appreciate your reply during this time :)

It just takes time, but you will be ok.

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Thank you for you reply :)

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Midori

Don't try to cling on, it will drive him further away.

Give him and yourself space and time to heal. Maybe some time in the future you may be able to become friends.

Sometimes, although it doesn't feel like it now, it is a blessing in disguise, and clears the way for something better.

Cheers, Midori

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Shanm2 in reply to Midori

Thank you so much Midori, I don't think we will ever be friends and that's okay. I feel something better in time will come and if that means understanding my heart better, that too is a blessing.

Your reply is deeply appreciated today, i hope you know that :)

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Midori

Glad to help, anytime.

Cheers, Midori

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