Afraid to Have Children Because of My Anxiety

[LDavis1993]

My husband and I really want children. I’m 29 and I’m ready. However, I’m afraid I’ll lose my mind during or after pregnancy. I feel like I’ll have terrible anxiety and lose myself. I hear stories and it’s terrifying. Wish there was hope.

[LDavis1993]

I really want them. As long as I don’t go into Post Parton Psychosis I’ll be able to push through. Just that fear of losing my mind scares me.

[LDavis1993 in reply to LDavis1993]

Post Partum ****

[Hb2003]

I am young but I wouldn't want to get pregnant for those same exact reasons and genetic issues as well ...

[Hiccup1228]

I had similar fears. I had a baby 2 years ago and while he is the best thing to ever happen to me, it’s also been the hardest thing to ever happen to my mental health. I struggled with ppd that I didn’t get treated, and with my recent depression and anxiety flares, I’m struggling with feeling connected to my son. I would suggest talking to your partner and a trusted doctor/therapist about your fears ❤️

[LDavis1993 in reply to Hiccup1228]

I’ll do everything I can do manage my mental health. it’s my dream to be a loving mom.

[Dolphin14]

I think I know the case you are referring to. So very sad 😢

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[Shnookie]

I’ll be 65 this year. I love children and think si would be a good step-granny. However, on my mom’s side alone there is mental illness that goes back and forth six generations. I realize the pain, depression and utter hell I have gone thru and I would not have wanted a child of mine to go thru such hell. Do some research , talk to your gynecologist and a genetic specialist. I’m here 4 U. Hugs 🤗 S

[LDavis1993]

it’s so sad