Update on my previous post, the one about my sister

[Against_the_current]

My sister texted me and she was acting adequate to her circumstances. My damn mom drove me into madness again with her manipulations and her complaining of my sis who apparently is the only normal person in this Addams family. Idk whether it was mom or my panic tbh. I question reality

[SoporRose]

I love your Addams family reference. What I love about the Addamses, especially the original series, is how they welcome everyone to their home. Everyone judges them as the creepy ones, but in truth they are always kind and respectful to each other and to the people they meet, even when they disagree. They are always eager to help and to share their wealth and resources. It's a great show.

What a relief that your sister is OK. I mean, teenagers are always difficult because BEING a teenager is difficult, but that normal.

And it's not your panic; it's your mom manipulating you because she knows she can trigger your panic and anxiety and control you. Stay as strong as you can and, as your sister gets older, the two of can present more and more of a united front against the harm your mom inflicts.