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So today started as a really good day like there was no one home so we got like 3 rooms, 3 bathrooms, 2 halls, 2 balconies, and a beautiful kitchen full of my favourite food then when it was about 4pm or something we get a call from mum to clean all of the previous shit because apparently we have a out 9 d*mn guests coming by 8am tomorrow and we even have to make prepare the lunch's ingredients so we did it it's good till now then dad and big bro come home we hate dad but we love big bro so much so it's fine we could just ignore dad and have some fun together but No how could we because dad can't see us having fun cause we are Male & female like really you didn't notice that for the last 18 years and start to notice it now but we calmed ourselves and got to our room but big bro didn't like it and just a memo he has severe self_injury issue we mean we have it too but it's not severe and we can spend months without injuring ourselves but bro doesn't he has to hurt himself once a day at least so that's exactly what he did and instead of being a proper father and trying to help him he scolded him for about a whole hour it and it seems no matter what we or our brother do our parents just don't understand that we don't need to be scolded at but we need help instead even when we try to talk to them logically they don't even hear us we are so tired of this family of ours

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I'm glad the day was able to start out good for you! I'm sorry it didn't seem to stay that way. Nine guests is a lot of people to prepare for and you took care of that as well. Good on you!

It's unfortunate that many people, your parents included, don't always seem to understand mental health and the struggles we face with it. It's great that you were able to spend time with "big bro" and have that family connection. I would be frustrated too that your father's response was to reprimand and not try to understand. I'm pulling for you! I hope tomorrow goes well with all the guests you are expecting.

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