helpful to me

good advice i should post on my wall.........

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ya never know thanks.........too long at the neg college i guess.......could not please anyone but that was politics and gender poltics of there.....and homelife......still leaves an inprint........thanks........neg families ..thanks........

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hear u

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many thnk.........best wishes to all..........(praying for Britain during these hard times, praying for St Jude, Shriners Kids, Veterns, Disabled, and all those who face unfairness in life family and health.......pray for those who face chronic challenges and injustices.......through no fault of their own and hope they purge the cliche.........help people make good choices........like they would know.......fat and well fed well housed ....well meaning but patronizing to those who face choices between 4 or 10 terrivle choices only to have people review with a crical ear or eye.............with their monday morning coach office perspective.......easy for them to say........same as in clincial medicine.......sometimes people only have choice between terrible decisions and terrible descisiosns..........too many counselors lack life expoerence)))

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not my busness........but i dont apprecaite the way families diss on people and make some people feel lke nothings.......try to keep my nose out of it.......im shocked and surprised..........clients haver to remind cousnelors that each person has their own perspective and two sides or multmple sides to each story ...........remind people...........so long as they choice safe horses and safe anaimals............we old pro riders.............have plenty of days when we or we would gladly hire........a beginner whod groom and baby our animals........as typeically we get so busy with teaching and admn...........we dont............dont look down our noses at beginnners.........adn often a good reminder and wake up of what we once were or lose touch with or dont have tme when were were busy with admin.........we cant do or be everyewhwere.........what we often need are people who want experience and go baby ultra safe horses (but dont take that term personally ........mature people usually dont...........however..........it gladdens our hearts........to have such a person adopt our old school horses.........groom all u want...put ribbons in his hair..........we .................dont............care.........and smile........all day long................inside.............those peopel...........just dont know it.........guess we need to put a poster

god love our volunteers...........or someting.........

we allllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll started..............in our busiess at the start............

we used to teach............to protect people from the hells kitchen types

before the mhs called us eltitists..........

now........i teach only when invited.........only to specific people...............thats it.........or suggest people get involved in EFT programs.......

our job was was to get people off right..........were are not mega buck hunter jumper florida circuit people.........we worked out way out of the bottom.........

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i totally object to words of mentla illness and mental health

years ago people were called the N word......sounds just the same to me

my friends may suffer from depression or dispair orororororor poverty or or that leads to.......

i dont want to hear the jargon in horsmanship as its used too often to make pep;e feel bad............correcting beginners to make th teacher feel superior....i disliek and object to this immendselly .............

i dont like jargon with support groups........we human ........so are athtletes and riders..........coaches and .....others can sound very superior.........all u do is........thats beacause coaches bark orders..........all u do is lose 30 puounds......all us do is run ten miles what the big deal.........and cousnelors can do the same thing........all u do is ..

its super easy to be demanding as a coach......why ......because they arent doing the change........same as riders and trainers and why i coach my riders to not be overly demanding...........they the riders..........do not do any change......its the poor horse............that has to do al lthe changing.........adn that is hard........they my riders and in clinics..........for get that.................anyone can be a task master........takes no talent............takes far more talent to be careful humane and maker sure u reallly know or understrand this horse or student or person.........

very easy to get pushy and over encouragnng and ........u dont know what some peple are dealing wth when they come in for lessons........sometmes im too senstive smetimes not senstive enogh........

no one hear but idont apreicate mhs cousnelors tellming me my bisness which ive done for 45 years.........but its not according to mhs standards or whatever........they have never taught or coached...........im fed up butting heads with the mhs and their biases.........oh u guy never help the poor and and

total biases total bull.............we also have to make a living.........and why i wont teach anyone wth counslors or bossy parents .........lecture and ream me for their biases..........we work wth the poor.......u dont.................u dont know that at all...........we cant run barns on charity........doesnt work that way........we have to have paying customers.........were jsut teachers poor ourselves........done with the mental haealth people social workers and ignorant pepole.......i used to be the one who developed all the sandlot kids...........not any ore.......can thank the mhs who creamed me for thier biases........i m a great teacher and was very dedicated.............not no more..........i wont teach any more..........