Help,things are hopeless : My... - Anxiety and Depre...

Anxiety and Depression Support

90,928 members84,868 posts

Help,things are hopeless

Against_the_current profile image

My roommates were bullying me and i escaped to mom's apartment wednesday evening. I was ruined. At home ruined too. Mom is telling me how sis causes troubles and i worry. I worry when to go back to university city. There im scared of roommates, here im dying with mom and sis and nobody cares. I'm also physically sick too. I'm dying, i can't even Type, i need a safe place. Idk hwere to go. I need care and i don't even have ppl hwo check up. Idk when to go back. Mom n sis rae stressing me out. But i ofrgot my laundry at the washing mashine and my roommates will scold me. I can't function and i get no proper help or tolerance. I can't help sis studying because i can't function. I can't clean accomodation because i can't function. And nobody here cares. I'm tired

Written by
Against_the_current profile image
Against_the_current
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
6 Replies
Starrlight profile image
Starrlight

Can you slow down and take a break? Just focus on you? And your health? I’m here for you. Keep writing. It’s going to be okay my friend. Don’t worry about other people right now if you can help it; just take care of you.

Against_the_current profile image
Against_the_current in reply to Starrlight

Thanks

Genuineguy profile image
Genuineguy

Hi, Im sorry youve been feeling so alone lately. It can be really hard to function when we don't feel mentally well and you arent alone in that. It happens to all of us.For me personally, I am prone to make mistakes when I feel down or overwhelmed. Its just maybe your roommates dont have the life experience to understand that yet. Its very hard handling intense feelings. We empathize and care and want you to be ok. And we know you are doing your best.

Against_the_current profile image
Against_the_current in reply to Genuineguy

Thank you so much. Wish people understood. They stress me out and then wonder why i do mistakes, my roommates, mom, everyone. I just need someone to understand

Genuineguy profile image
Genuineguy in reply to Against_the_current

My therapist has been encouraging me to be compassionateto myself when I make mistakes. Saying things like 'It's OK to make mistakes...I'm going through alot so it's understandable I will lose focus at times' And, "We all make mistakes" helps. It'sn not easy though and I have to work hard at treating myself kindly but it's good for me.

You're going through alot emotionally. Anyone would struggle if they felt what you felt. You're doing great though even if you do make mistakes at times. Please try be kind to yourself even if you feel others aren't. Do nice things for yourself like making art and having a nice cup of tea. My therapist calls this being a mature caring parent to our inner child. It helps me to see it this way ☕️🎨🏞

Against_the_current profile image
Against_the_current in reply to Genuineguy

Needed this

Not what you're looking for?

You may also like...

Anyone experience deteriorating health due to not leaving the house and/or sitting a lot?

Due to depression (and to an extent, anxiety) it's gotten really difficult to accomplish things...

I NEED HELP

My physical appearance feels like it needs work, my mental ahealtg and thought process has hit...

What to do when made feel worthless by own mother

Normally i dont open up about my feelings like this…. But in this group , even though im new here,...

Stuck

I want to work, I want to help people, but I cry at the drop of a hat. I try to care less, but I...

Are you still struggling with the cost of living 😕

I don't know about anyone else but I find food shopping and paying various bills isn't getting any...