What should I do if I want to get references before joining a personal dating online agency for learning disabilities user?

I searched the web and found a learning disability dating agency but I didn't even realize they needed references to even send the application form back. It's unclear to me why learning to do anything takes more time for the user. In fact, it takes even more time. Since I come from a learning disability group, I've experienced the same frustration and anoyance. The same is true of dating agencies for people with learning disabilities. Is there even a need for them? I am still waiting. She filled out the form for dating agency, it's going to take even longer because she must send back the documents for learning disability. Why does it seem so difficult to make anything work for users with learning disabilities. They should be easy, but they aren't. As far as I'm concerned, it is very unfair that learning disabled users get punished. I've dealt with this quite a lot during my life. Punished by not doing anything and being suspended for your learning disability