I struggle to self evaluate my mental health on a day to day basis. It's literally driving me insane.
My therapist has a consistent message for me. Do what you are capable of each day and also dont be hard on yourself if you dont meet your expectations.
This is the struggle. How do I know if I did my best? Some days just barely getting out of bed to feed myself is not uncommon. Is this the best my current mental condition with allow, or am I just wallowing in my maladaptive coping mechanisms for comfort.
If I'm more of the latter, should I still be nice to myself even though my behavior is not in my best interest?
That's the problem with severe depression. The symptoms mimic what others would call laziness, apathy, lethargy and self pity.
I feel like it's a no win situation because I can't tell the difference. So I tend to just be hard on myself no matter what I may accomplish each day. This just perpetuates the cycle, but It seems wrong to not be hard on myself when productivity is near zero for days at a time. It's so easy to make the argument that if I just pushed myself more I could have done more.
Everyone's mental health is unique to them so there is no general guideline to rely on.