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I’ve been feeling ok; thankfully! I did have a question though:

Would you be upset if your really good friend was still commenting on someone’s social media (someone who really hurt you) and in contact with them?? I honestly don’t know how to feel about it 🤨

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Fearoffear

As long as your really good friend wasn't telling this person your business, I don't see where it should be a problem. You have the problem not your friend. Unfortunately in life you aren't going to get along with everyone, but not everyone shares your views. If your friend is telling your non friend information about you I would limit what I tell my friend. Sorry you have to feel upset, did you try talking to your friend and make sure she knows you aren't happy with the person she is commenting on and you would hope she holds your information in confidence? I hope it works out as friends are hard to come by. Gentle hugs 🫂🫂

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I agree with what you said. Very well put Fearoffear.

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BrownEyesBlue in reply toFearoffear

You are so right. I wasn’t upset; I just didn’t know how to feel about it and was looking for other’s opinions. This really helped put things in perspective. Thank you ❤️

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Obscured

For me, it would depend a lot on what the person that hurt me did. If it was something particularly bad, I would hope my friend would be fully on my side and understand that any continued contact with this person would be problematic for me. Unfortunately, they also have a relationship with this person that you cannot control. If it is really upsetting you, I think the best thing would be to talk honestly about it with your friend. They may not know that they are hurting you and may have different feelings about the situation.

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detour13

Yes I would if she was a best friend.. She should totally take your side and right him off as well!!!!

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Lin1944

Hi, 2 years ago a close friend sent an email saying the nastiest things about me to another close friend. I told her how upset I was and blocked her from Facebook. Now she is friendly with some of my friends and I feel they are disloyal to me. I still talk to them all but the trust is lost. I just stick to my loyal friends. X

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