Do You Believe this saying"Life is not fair"?

[Tenant_321]

No, I don't. Iam here to tell you that is a lie. People are not fair. We are still in a pandemic and despite our current crisis, people still show no compassion. In the state where I live. I call it a smoke factory but almost everyone here smokes and yet still wears the masks as if they are really helping society. The organization do not have thr stuff together. Don't ever schedule a dmv hearing with them and cant make it. There rules are you can cancel 24 hours before, you just have to inform them. Yeah, that is people for you.

Or even worst, let's say you nearly died because of a reckless driver who was speeding on a rainy collides right into you. Of Course, he will never admit fault. He will just get two witness to lie on you and tell everyone that you took the light. When there is evidence that the lights malfunctioned and hydroplaned to prevent the collusion because he took the light. You can not get a lawyer because we have something called group think. They believe the lie of the witnesses. Many will say"That is life" , "Just move on". As if. No, that is people for ya. I would like to end my rant with a song a wrote a while ago. " In this world I live, so much to give, hidden by my fears. See, I am drowning and surrounding myself with people playing with my emotions and bringing out my fears. People, they just do not play fair. That's people for ya."

[hypercat54]

Who promised life was fair?

[Reading_Rando]

For the most part we have a degree of free will, but if we have this degree of free will we then we also have responsbility for what we do with it. Many people deny their free will so that they can get out of being responsible for what they do.

[propjock]

The world is mostly run by a group of (fortunately dysfunctional) liars and abusers. There’s a resistance movement, frequently infiltrated or intimidated, but very resilient. “Fair” is an ideal. We do know it when we see it, and even the liars pretend to approve. That tells you something. There are pockets of fairness, especially on the individual level, but the system is varying degrees of rotten. And then there are the sunsets, flowers, singing flying creatures, children, soft creatures that vibrate and make a humming sound, bigger creatures that really like us and make a noisy mess when they drink water, at least the big ones. And there’s clouds that shoot out sparks and make incredible rumbling sounds, oceans, rivers, waterfalls, and a liquid that floats when it freezes, and falls from the sky (seldom the right amount). The not quite fair people get together and sing and use various machines to make incredible sounds, when they are not racing each other in other machines, or flying through the air, really really fast, in other machines with wings like birds but that don’t flap. And when it comes to their games they are fairness fanatics. And the liars and abusers never get the upper hand completely for very long. There’s rumors of an invasion to depose them and free us, but it’s been an awfully long wait.

[Gentlespirit]

There's a lot of hurt and painful experiences in what your sharing . It's extremely frustrating isn't it? Theres irony in life but it's not easy to just move on.

It takes time to deal with things and I don't knoow what else to say?

[Gentlespirit]

There is unfortunately a mountain to climb and another and another with no guarantee or offer of fairness.It takes time to heal and understand the nature of things. Sometimes that point may not ever be reached.

I hope you will find some fairness annd compassion.