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Utterly betrayed

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Hi my friends, I've been offline for a little while. Something terrible happened a couple of weeks ago and I am still reeling from it. Just to recap in November of last year my oldest assaulted me because he became angry over a bill. In December he apologized and said it was his meds so I accepted his apology to try and keep the peace during the holiday season. Well these 3 people that I brought into the world, cared, nurtured and raised stabbed me in the back (not literally) by moving away without telling me and by taking their 16 year old sister that I have custody of and I have no idea where she is. The apartment is cleaned out, they only left my things behind. They took my dog and cat too. So now I am left holding the bag for the entire rent 1800.00 a month that they know I cannot afford alone that is why we were living together in the first place. The only saving grace is that my ex-husband left money for me to live on after he passed away in July of last year. I'm beyond shocked and hurt that they would do such a thing to me. I have no history of being a negligent parent in fact I think that I overcompensated, causing them to be rotten people. I am looking for a new place to stay so please pray for me. ❤❤❤

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I'm sorry to hear this. You're in my thoughts and prayers!

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Agora1

I am so sorry to hear this Simplysil. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. :) xx

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hlacovara

Reading this I can sense your pain. I can relate in that I too have significant family issues. It is especially hard when you not only are hurt by their actions, but your living environment is directly related to them as well. Where do you go to get a break from this? It is like you are stuck at the moment. Can you also reach out to your doctor to get set up w therapy? I suggest this bc it helped me. Here in the U.S. they are trained to point you in the right direction when you are in an environment that is directly relating to your stress, anxiety, and depression. They may be able to help you figure out what your next move should be now that they've left you in a place you can't afford on your own. 💛

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