Recognition

Learning that removes guilt and shame.

If someone tries to use those emotions on yourself.

Hint: recognition comes from the heart. So ask yourself. Do you have one? If so, whatever you choose to recognize. True or false. It comes from your heart, whether that may be for yourself or others.

Self gain, is not the same as, self gain at a cost of another (whatever that may be). You deserve happiness as much as I do.

Get it. Now the challenge for me was how? Without screwing your self or some one else.

Impatience and frustration will give the illusion that, life is not fun. Willingness and belief is the “illusion” of reality or simply reality. And they make things fun.

I can only speak for myself. Hope this provides help or enlightenment that spreads to all.

🥰 much love

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So, willingness and belief make things fun and impatience and frustration do not? And I want life to be fun, of course. Can one have too much fun??? I have had too much fun before to try to be happy and it can be dangerous. It's a long story.

I am trying to understand what you are saying. It's so poetic. Can you specify more details please. I believe I need to hear this. I guess I am afraid of "fun". I got it! I will take baby steps to have more fun in my life because I think I am missing out.

Thank you fakehackr.

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My underlying point which is a bit subliminal, for others, cuz I’m so sneaky 👹

Words are words. Life is what you make it. As the Greek “philosophers” also try and make for someone to understand. Which they fall on perspective.

I shared with a friend today, lyrics from a song, “living too well is a sin”. That’s not to scare or anything.

To me, that says, living too well, you forget about everyone else and self indulge. You worth only about yourself. And that can lead to self gain at the cost of another.

I’ve also learned from one of my closest friends, you can never get too comfortable. For me, that translated to just about the same as what I shared above.

It was important for me, to recognize my point of self indulgence and tune that to a “level” where I take care of myself and can still think for others and help to my best ability. I personally love to help and a lot of the times I give advice when advice is not wanted. That makes no sense to me but I had to learn to respect that and receive it as constructive criticism or whatever lol

Does any of this make sense? Hahaha I ramble a lot and I’m a big “know it all”. 🤓