Hate

[Sky_clouds]

I am disgusted by my parents. I think I even hate them. I strongly want to kill myself so that they have to be guilty all their life. BUT I THINK THEY WON'T EVEN BE GUILTY EVEN THEN.

[Anna_and_Ollie]

There is no greater **** you then becoming successful with no help from them.

I understand why you want to kill yourself however you’re life is precious to you. Imagine all the amazing things you can experience.

Your parents only have to be involved in a small portion of your life if that’s what you want. The rest of it is going to be your hands on the wheel.

[Hidden]

Killing your self in the name of wanting someone to have a certain reaction or feel a certain emotion is only going to be a complete waste of a precious life, which is yours.

I think you should talk to someone, the sooner you start to change your reactions, the sooner you’ll start to heal. We stay bound by keep giving toxic people power over our emotions and reactions. Therapy may be a good fit for you to learn coping methods on how to deal with your parents or toxic people that enter your life.

You’ll never get an answer as to ‘why’ your parents do this or that, or did this and didn’t do that. As an adult you have freedom to live your life. How much you let them be a part of it is your choice.

[Iammesues]

Better if you get away from them and live a good life. Show them how much better you are without them. That’s the best slap in the face

[Micafe]

How old are you?

[Hidden]

I am sorry for the way you feel but hatred is not a good motive in life. If you start acting out of hatred and anger, you will just end up angrier and more full of hate. Eventually you will begin to hate yourself. Be warned, don’t go down that road.

I know it’s hard to avoid placing the blame for our problems. It’s hard to forgive. But that takes a lot of energy and focus away from what we really need to do, which is fixing our problems and moving forward. Try to move forward, don’t let the hatred poison you.

[Hidden]

Living well is the best revenge....I heard this years ago and try and remind myself of this. My parents didn't want this for me so I'm going against their wishes.

[socratesanne]

They simply are not worth your sacrificing a wondrous life free of the destructive parent. My mother was beyond understanding and anyone who knew her behavior behind closed doors would agree but it helps me now to put it aside.. It helps to finally put the anger and rage aside and rise above what was done to me, and make the best life I can for myself. No one understands as it was too embarrassing to tell anyone and only made the situation worse if I attempted to explain and no would be able to understand. Funny, after this pandemic, this got better, as I no longer care about a person like her to ruin what is left of my life and it some ways, she ruined it but it also gave me the strength now to not let anything push me down again. You are worth a grand life and to maximize the joy that it can be and you have worked hard to be able to recognize when things are good and how to maneuver around the ugly turns that one might launch at you. It is our time to rise up and be happy. I like that song about being happy. Sorry cannot remember the name but I know you might know the name or someone on here will know it.