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If you could be honest in everything you say, what would you say?

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If you knew today was your last day to live, what would you say? What would you want to be know? And what is holding you back from saying it now?

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This is a great question and I love it. I guess I would tell my dad that I love him - I do anyway tbh but I would do it again. And I would tell my friend who is like a bro to me the same too. I would also tell my mum again that I forgive her for how she treated me because I wouldnt want her feeling bad and in pain and regretting how she has hurt me. I would want her to know that I dont see her as bad. (She knows this anyway but if I was going to die I think that she would need a reminder)

I honestly dont feel I have anything I want anyone to know that they dont know already. Im usually very honest and open and like to be sincere with people.

I would though like to do some things I havent got around to doing. I would like to go singing and playing my guitar in the street. The reason I havent done it is because I dont feel Im good enough yet. But if this was my last day I would do it anyway. I would also like to leave every one of my friends a gift or something to let them know they are eternally valued too. I think its great to try and do those things anyway even though hopefully this isnt my last day. Reminding myself that life is so fragile motivates me to try and be a better person in the short time I have though so thanks for the thought provoking questions 😊

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So beautiful 😊

What would your answers be to the same questions?

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I’d tell my family I love them. I’d write or call my closest friends and tell them to read my journals so they would know how much they impacted my life for the better. I’d want people to know I’m not perfect but I never stopped trying to do my best.

I can’t say anything is holding me back though. Ever since I lost a close friend of mine a year ago, I have been less hesitant to say what’s on my mind. Yet, strangely I have also learned to be more patient as well. Everything has a timing to it. Timing is essential in order for our words to take the most effect on those around us.

I think there is less I want others to know of me and more I want to know about people I know. Like wether or not my best friend really did love me, Or if God forgives me for my faults, or more about my parents lives. I’d wish I had more time to write all of their stories.

I'd probably tell a bunch of people to go screw off.Ive held back n said nothing out of respect.😁👍Id definitely pay each a visit in person to make sure they knew I wasn't kidding n Id probably be dancing n singing in the streets after,till my last breath.

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I would say to my parents that I love them I would tell my autistic brother that everything is going to be ok and give him a long bear hug 🤗 I would tell my sister that I’m sorry for being rude to you I would thank John Lennon for the song imagine I would thank Michael Jackson for the song heal the world . I would say that I wished that I wasn’t ashamed to be Muslim for the last few years I am not ashamed anymore and I’m proud of it .i would say to Donald Trump thank you for breaking me apart and tearing me down and my religion down which made me stronger now .

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I hope that I didn’t offend anyone on the last part

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