What you don't want, you don't want! Simple as that!!!

[Pieces99]

I get it, some friends are demanding, hungry for attention and sometimes they want to be more than a friend. But simply put, I might not think that way because of course I am a different human being. Now if I get hurt many times from a person and experience anxiety because of it, I should cut out that person off my life for my well being. When I say NO, it means simply NO. Now why do some people don't understand and take it out of context to make a certain kind of claim. They should be satisfied with what they are getting out of me. That should be it. Is it so hard to let go of that want that one desire?

I may seem a little blunt in this post I shared but I'm just angry and wanted to just get out myself from a hole.

[ChubbaGiz]

My guess from this is that someone wants you as more than a friend and you don't feel the same way. And you're right; It should be that simple. And it is for you. But some people do find it hard to let go of an ideal. I am hoping that this person has not gone on to levels of pressuring you or harming you, but regardless, maybe you will need to be the one to cut this person out of your life since this person can't or won't accept what you are willing to offer to theirs.

[Pieces99 in reply to ChubbaGiz]

Yes I did cut him from every where.

[Hidden in reply to Pieces99]

Step one complete. Step two find the real friends and start be normal again. I know the sounds easy but isn't. I've have gone thru a situation with a friend like this. Took them awhile but they are on right track. Godspeed to you.

[Pieces99 in reply to Hidden]

Hey thanks for the advice. I'm really good right now. Really focussing on myself