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Living in Gehenna

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My husband took a day off work to help me do some major work, hopefully to make the house a little nicer today. I have such bad pain issues I can't do much alone. My house has been going to hell for years since I was crippled.

I have been taking FREQUENT breaks to deal with the physical pain the work is causing me. Playing FreeCell; poking around our forum.

Not to mention (but I will anyway) the breaks to deal with the sniping.

He just screamed "If you sit down at that computer one more time I'm going to blow up the house."

Just another day in Paradise folks.

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Well I presume it's half his house too? He doesn't sound very understanding about your issues. I would say he either has to help more or he will need to employ someone to help in the house. Any half decent spouse would be doing this already, which doesn't say much for him does it? Remind him of your wedding vows 'in sickness and in health'.

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Nothing_but_books in reply to hypercat54

Hi hypercat54,

Anger issues rule the day. And so it goes.

Nothing is all one person...

Wish I dealt with it all better.

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hypercat54 in reply to Nothing_but_books

You should be wishing HE did!

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Nothing_but_books in reply to hypercat54

😂

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