Is LOVE enough for a stable relationship?

[Cunda]

I can't be intimate with my partner. We do have sex, she loves me dearly and I do love her too but our sex life is boring. I used to be great with other women but it's so boring now. Is it always just about love ?

[wantobefree]

Well, I think it is always about Love; and sex its an expression of it, only one of the many ways to express Love. Of course we can also have sex just for pleasure, but I believe that the best sex its when you actually love someone. The best way to fix your boring sex life is to be open and honest with your wife about your feelings. You can both spice things up together, explore different options. Talk about your fantasies. Sometimes just talking about its enough to spice things up. The worse thing you can do, is keeping it to your self and do nothing about it. Maybe she feels the same way. But you wont know unless you kindly communicate your feelings and your ideas in the matter. Every couple should talk about sex and do things different, explore new ways of touching each other and different positions, fantasies etc. Couples should have open discussions with each other about how we like things, show each other how you liked to be touched etc. Go for it! Good luck!

[Billsfriend]

Actually Love is enough, because the power of Love is a wonder of life.

From the little you wrote, I know that you have the power to change your relationship for the better. IDK what all is involved but I do know that you have to make a commitment to help your Wife become the Lover you desire. Of course you have to begin with kindness and patience. If you decide that you are going to do this no matter what it takes, no matter how long it takes. You will be amazed at the progress you make!

After you make the commitment ( you did already when you Married your wife).

It's time to do some research. I guarantee that you will come out of this a much stronger man, with the power to overcome any obstacle life brings you!

[Bluetj]

I say talk to her about it, let her know what u want; better yet show her. I use to think my husband was the biggest freak & I thought the 'different' things he wanted to do was crazy. I am so glad he really invited me in. Our love making became long & passionate. He taught me how to touch him as well as he touches to me. U talkn about somebody that saw heaven, WHEW!!!!! I wouldn't trade it for nothing.

[Hidden]

You are not alone. Me too.

[iconoclasts]

Perhaps you could involve sex toys for both of you, or sexy lingerie for your wife.

Role-playing or talking dirty could work as well.

Pay attention to her - don't just think about your orgasm, but prioritise hers. Yes, guys, foreplay matters.

Now if you don't try, you won't know, will you? I reckon life well lived should be about having tried everything/anything at least once.