I feel like giving up: these days... - Anxiety and Depre...

Anxiety and Depression Support

88,082 members82,651 posts

I feel like giving up

readinginthedark profile image

these days everything is just way too hard for me. Even the things I am great at, I keep on messing it up. It takes me way to much willpower to get up from bed every morning. I don't know what to do. I just want to give up.

Written by
readinginthedark profile image
readinginthedark
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
11 Replies
Blubells profile image
Blubells

Please don’t give up. Life can be good again. I’ve had times when I have felt just like you do but please just believe it won’t always be like this........

readinginthedark profile image
readinginthedark in reply to Blubells

Thank you for your words, it really means a lot

NeuronerdDoaty profile image
NeuronerdDoaty

I give up all the time. There is no book that says I have to be me today or this afternoon. I will do nothing or something different. I’ll step off this path for big, little, or no reason. I give up. Who cares? It’s my life. I’ll get in my car and drive. My dad just passed away. I almost drove to a different state but I found out how cold it was there. Nope. I’ll drive to warm.

Ending things is cool but you don’t have to end your life to do it. Pick something to change or dump out of your life. It can make a huge difference. Save your brain.

Besides we need you.

Sending strength and peace

Doaty

readinginthedark profile image
readinginthedark in reply to NeuronerdDoaty

Thank you so much, I really needed it. I am so sorry that you are feeling this way. All we can do is hope it gets better

NeuronerdDoaty profile image
NeuronerdDoaty in reply to readinginthedark

Hope is everything. We have that and each other and this group.

lena16 profile image
lena16

Feel the same way, but the fact that we’re still here means something. We’re still fighting and its exhausting, but just keep telling yourself that tomorrow will be the day things get better, even if you don’t believe it. Lie to yourself until it no longer is a lie, it gives you a reason to make it to tomorrow. That’s what I’m doing. I will send you encouragement bc i find it easier to encourage others when I can’t encourage myself😊

readinginthedark profile image
readinginthedark in reply to lena16

thank you so much! I hope things get better for you too!

Sunandrose87 profile image
Sunandrose87

When was the last time...

you colored in a coloring book?

Picked a recipe out of a book and just tried it?

Go on YouTube and learn how to do a new dance.

Next time you are passing a mirror in your house make a funny face and make yourself laugh.

Adults need to play too. Play tomorrow and then see if you can concentrate on your daily tasks better.

readinginthedark profile image
readinginthedark in reply to Sunandrose87

Thank you for your advice!

NeuronerdDoaty profile image
NeuronerdDoaty in reply to Sunandrose87

I love my coloring books.

Sabio77 profile image
Sabio77

readinginthedark never give up. for you are valuable. you are worth every effort. believe in yourself. Yes, times can seem hopeless but, never give up. take time to refocus on positivity. the things you are good at doing. breath in fresh air. listen to soothing music. talk to us on here. you are enough and WILL get thru this. hugs of encouragement. :)

You may also like...

I feel like giving up

feel like every day just gets worse. I have a super stressful job. I really try my best every day,...

I feel like giving up

and soft words but I have no one. I don't know what to do, I just want this to stop. I feel like I...

When you feel like giving up

in the morning and just want to stay in bed, or a task or relationship just seems to be too hard...

I feel like giving up soon

mom evens seems better without me in her sight, and my sister is always disgusted with everything I...

Feeling like giving up

anything. But what about my husband and my girls? No I can't think that way. But I'm just too...