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In Starbucks 1.28 am freezing drinking my coffee and sharing my thoughts with you

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kenster1

tell the staff to turn up the heating that jacket must be keeping you warm it looks really snug.

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NourD95 in reply to kenster1

there is no heater out side so i went inside , that jacket dose nothing in this cold.

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kenster1

get yourself home in a warm cosy house after a starbucks of course.

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NourD95 in reply to kenster1

thats what going to happen :)

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kenster1 in reply to NourD95

I must be the only person on the planet never to have had a starbucks mind you.

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NourD95 in reply to kenster1

what do you mean? you never went to starbucks????!!!!!

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kenster1 in reply to NourD95

no never been couldn't even tell you where the nearest one was.

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NourD95 in reply to kenster1

omg where do you live?

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kenster1 in reply to NourD95

haha I live in Glasgow in Scotland honestly thinking about it I don't know my nearest one.

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NourD95 in reply to kenster1

woow scotland , how is the weather there?

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kenster1 in reply to NourD95

its very wet but quite mild just now.

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Marshall64 in reply to kenster1

You can't go two miles around here without bumping into one.

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NourD95 in reply to Marshall64

lol , i have my car i can go home but im not in the mood to go home i wanna hangout then i will have a nap in my friend hotel .

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Marshall64 in reply to NourD95

Speaking of countries, what country are you from? I live in the middle of the US. It is cold here too.

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NourD95 in reply to Marshall64

im from kuwait , middle east

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Marshall64 in reply to NourD95

I always thought of that area as being warm. I googled the climate and it says how cold it can get at night in the winter. Interesting. I'm anyways learning stuff.🤔

I like that this site has people from all over the world although that means people all over the world are suffering from the same mental conditions, life, drama, relationship problems etc.

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Elfje in reply to Marshall64

I am from Belgium cold here too unfortunately no drama. And yes I suffer and others in my country too but I fight every day. But looking beautiful like the girl on the pic sorry but I have my thoughts about it

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Marshall64 in reply to Elfje

I have been through Belgium as I was driving through Europe. Beautiful country. Wish I could have spent more time there.

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kenster1 in reply to Marshall64

just googled it up nearest one is about 9 miles from me.

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Marshall64 in reply to kenster1

I didn't realize Scotland was a third world country. 😋 That is way too far....

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kenster1 in reply to Marshall64

haha yeah sometimes it feels like it.

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Marshall64 in reply to kenster1

My advice? Stay away, very far away. They are addicting...

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kenster1 in reply to Marshall64

that's my new year resolution sorted go to starbucks even once.

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LiveandLetLive42 in reply to kenster1

Haha you need to try it lovebug 💕 It’s so good!! I will drive to you and take you if I have to! Love you!! 💜

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Kainan in reply to kenster1

Never had one either. I’d much prefer Dunkin’

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Marshall64 in reply to Kainan

I like the frappuccinos at Starbucks. Dunkin doesn't offer them..

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Kainan in reply to Marshall64

Are they good?

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Marshall64 in reply to Kainan

Oh yeah...

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melbrown in reply to kenster1

lol... I remember when we went to visit our friends in New Zealand like 6 years ago... they just got a Starbucks.

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Well, I have been in one but it was only to buy a yogurt cup for brunch. Not a coffee drinker so you might say I've never been. Buying a coffee in Starbucks for me would be like Robin Williams in "Moscow On The Hudson" shopping center scene. So many foreign words that are totally English that I have no idea when they're discussing coffee, how it's made, what's in it, where it comes from,...anxiety inducing.

Awww so pretty

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NourD95 in reply to UnderstandingMyPain

thank you xo

That is you Nour? Really I mean when I say you are pretty. You have the face of a model. And your lips...dare I say it? So kissable. Not being a perv, just an old man remembering a wonderful youth.

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lol, yes this is me and by the way i dont see my self pretty

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Nour, when I was in college I did a research paper on a girl my g/f knew who was anorexic. I did the book research and she gave me personal details I used as anecdotal evidence and nothing identifiable. She was a pretty girl, though too thin obviously. That is body dysmorphia. You do not like who you see in the mirror? I like who I see in the picture. She is a lovely girl and were I a young man and saw her I would ask her for a date. Why do you not feel pretty? Did someone tell you that? They are wrong, jealous. Stay strong, be yourself, and stay as pretty as your are now.

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no one say that im not pretty , but i see my self in a normal look and face. i dont hate how i look . all i know that im fine with how i look now .

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The way I look at it and I know it's different for me being male, you female, is I know that there are a lot of guys out there who look better than I do, built better, catch the ladies eyes. But the opposite is also true: There are a lot of guys out there who are uglier than I, not built as well, girls do not look at them. We all have our differences and what one may see as beauty another may not. It takes all kinds, and I truly believe that there is someone for everyone. I used to not think like that but over the years I've seen it. The least attractive person you've ever seen but they have a human companion. Plenty o' fish in the sea m'lady.

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i believe that it is not important how we look how is our body our face these things are not important which important what is the person from deep inside , his mentality is the important .

how the person treat you is the most important thing , we need someone kind , respectful , helpful , appreciate us. this is what every one need. i there was a handsome man wanted a date and in the date i discovered that his mentality is shit and he is not respectful in that time how he look will be enough?

nooo it dose not matter how we look from outside what matters is who we are from inside ?

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You're back on your feet now girl! Get warm, stay safe. I'm calling it a night. Take care.

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Chanshan

You know you should be glad that you are starbucks. With my depression I start drinking from evening during weekends and by 1:30AM it will be so painful.

Looks like you are doing well and I am happy for you.

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NourD95 in reply to Chanshan

you know why im in starbucks? im on the place that i was always with my x boyfriend in. so im here just want to set on the chair we used to set on. im in starting but im looking around hoping to see him hope and imagine that suddenly he come to me hug and kiss me. i know this is not ok that im waiting him after he broke up with me after out emgagment.

by the way im on alcohol almost daily i want to run away of the reality.

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Chanshan in reply to NourD95

No. That is not OK. Don't go that Starbucks. It makes things worse for you. When someone can't understand your pain, just let it go and try to be strong. It will payoff in the long run.

Alcohol gives me so much 1st one hour of drinking and then it pushes me into further depression.

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NourD95 in reply to Chanshan

Im trying to stop drinking it increase depression

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Chanshan in reply to NourD95

I know. Yesterday went to Jonas Brothers concert in San Francisco. As long as I am there it was fine. After coming home got drunk and went into deep depression. I don't how to stop drinking.

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EEMO in reply to NourD95

Why don't you try a AA Meeting, you can have coffee there.

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NourD95 in reply to EEMO

What is that?

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EEMO in reply to NourD95

Alcoholics Anonymous, you don't have to feel that way no more.

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EEMO

How are you?

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NourD95 in reply to EEMO

Trying to be good

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EEMO

Hope your doing well.

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