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[Beautifulscars93]

Ughhhh I think I need a new friend group and it suck because the people you thought were going to be there are shitty and I I rather just be done then trying to fix everything

[brokenlight]

I can relate to this feeling.

It’s a sad realization, but new friends can be made.

[Beautifulscars93 in reply to brokenlight]

Very true these friends turned into family so I'm in the middle right now of where does it all stand but I can't keep getting treated let me shit no need day then the next it's all gravy

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Relatable. As soon as I hit high school I dumped all my shitty friends (which was hard because they were like family) and started forming a new group of friends. But the important thing is that you have realized this and you can now go on from there.

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I think it's the truest form of realizing who your friends are and who isn't. Only when things hit the fan do we see who people are. I don't mean to sound so pessimistic where I'm usually the opposite, but screw'em. I often lost a group of friends over stupid things....and it seemed to repeat every two years. I had and now have all the friends I need (I'm 35...so usually too busy anyway) as I've grown and people have seen the worst and best of me. My family, now that I'm older, have become a huge source of friendship (my brother).

Anyway, I always looked at those episodes of "losing friends" as a great opportunity to turn the corner and find a new "era" of my life. It hurt for a bit, but it always turned around. Try to forget about it and start anew when you're comfortable. If or when they want to rekindle a friendship, let them build the bridge. I don't know your circumstances, but I make sure never to burn a bridge....I just don't let anyone across it until I can trust them. Chin up, piss off to those who showed their true colors, and head forward towards the future.

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"Ughhhh I think I need a new friend group and it suck because the people you thought were going to be there are shitty and I I rather just be done then trying to fix everything"

Sometimes adding new friends is a good thing. Just remember no one is perfect and though right now they seem to not be there for you, maybe they are going through their own troubles as well. I've learned in life that friends come and go and I usually get over it. But it does hurt. Do you have one friend you can always rely on?

[Liveinhope0689]

I get were your coming from I was just thinking about the same thing it’s hard to find friends that you can trust or that truly understand you and are willing to have your back. I’m going through that right now even though I live one of my close friends it is a toxic relationship bc we can’t see eye to eye and it’s no helping my mental state either....... the best thing to do is to find others that have gone through what you are going through and you can be each others support