Before one thinks of totally decimating someone, one must reckon those who depend on them. When you annihilate someone’s dreams and visions it is not only they whom you cause to experience grief and suffering. You cause also hardship to those who depend on this person’s dreams. For in their suffering from your toxicity you smother an entire families or group of loved one’s dreams. Stop sabotaging good folks visions, for no matter how small a dream may look, by you smothering their vision, you cause a chain reaction to maybe some vulnerable one whose dreams you also have crushed through your toxic motive to squelch someone’s good plan to better their lives. “Whatever a man/woman sows, so shall they reap”.
Humankind are complex-people say “think outside of the box-be open to what is out there in the world.” I’ve always thought that I was open minded. Unfortunately, when one opens up to the world you might leave yourself open to poison(s) that could literally kill you with the toxin(s) that overflow into your life. The heartache of loving and giving to those that are more than willing to take more away from you (including crushing your dignity), more than what they really deserve to receive from you; and then while your being loving and kind, you open up, leaving yourself vulnerable to toxic people’s (wolves in sheep’s clothing) poison that they feed you; well, should you not be resilient, or if you’ve been so poisoned, you might not be able to recover-(one of the lyrics I’ve written is titled); “sometimes you never get over the poison...you got to watch what you get your joys in...” What or who makes a difference in evolving from where you are to where you want to be are the people around you. I need good people around me-everyone does-strive to be kind to humankind, and surround yourself with those who too are kind to you. One of the greatest acts of self-love is being selfless-for in losing yourself in loving those around you, especially those who care about you and truly love you, is a way of being loving to ones self. Kind, loving people in your circle, whether it be a small group or large, is what makes one great. Be kind to humankind!Allowing toxic people or toxic ideas or things into your life, can poison you, but I think the anti-dote to the poison, or to get over the poison, is the above.