Hold my hand

I have been having some really bad days and usually when that happens i would shut down go into my own darkness where ending my life would sound like the only way out.... but this time around i acted differently, i reached out, i asked for help, i didn't keep the pain or my fears to myself I TALKED. I know asking for help is not easy especially if we're in a dark place where our mind keep us prisoners and tell us we're not worth the effort or we're just bothering people THAT IS NOT TRUE. We're cared for we are loved, and remember this is a safe place we'll hold your hand and listen to whatever it is you want to say and if you don't have the words I'll sit with you in the silence until you're ready. Sending you warm hugs and sunflowers 🌻🌻

[OT16]

I’m overjoyed to hear this Dani, because it’s absolutely true; you ARE dearly loved ! Not just by your family but also by us- your unseen family here. I know days are rough sometimes & oftentimes too frequently, but talking- even crying is beneficial. We all have those days. I’m so proud of you for trying something new & reaching out. I’m always here for you. You mean a lot to me ! Take good care of yourself. Hugs, 💜

[Celtic27 in reply to OT16]

Well said

[OT16 in reply to Celtic27]

Thank you so very much ! 💜

[Hidden in reply to OT16]

💛🌻🌻🌻😙 hey love words are not enough to tell you how lucky and grateful I am to have you thanks for being there always especially these past few days. I hope you know im here too for whatever you need sweetie

[OT16 in reply to Hidden]

Ditto kiddo !! 🙃🥰🎵🐾🌻🖤

[Celtic27]

Hi danielle you are not alone in this we are all in this together we're here to help each other! Your a amazing person who doesn't see the goodness in herself! Please everyone if you are having dark thoughts or just need a help please ask a friend and I'm sure someone will be there for you please take care my friend all the best 🙏

[Hidden in reply to Celtic27]

Hi David yes we're definitely in this together and sometimes reaching out can be hard but it's a necessary step, please know thatim here too of you ever need to chat or vent

[Celtic27 in reply to Hidden]

I'm greatful for having friend like your self that listen when I need someone to do do thank you xx

[Hidden]

That is great Danielle

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

🌻💛 thanks hun

[BonnieSue]

Excellent thoughts and words!! I'm so glad you tried something new; I doubt it was easy for you but you did it anyway! Kudos to you! What a wonderful way to encourage and point the way for others! Love this! I pray you continue to have success at reaching out and you feel better and better!

Hugs, Love, and Blessings...

[Hidden in reply to BonnieSue]

Definitely wasn't easy and i was glad i did i got the support and advice i needed, the forum is full of amazing people willing to be there throughout your bad days with you.

[ImpulsivelyMe]

I saw your post about your father before it was deleted, he can no longer hurt you im here if you ever need to talk to someone

[Hidden in reply to ImpulsivelyMe]

Talking about dad is a trigger for me thats why i deleted it and that previous post

[Orangeblossom85]

I also believe that it’s much better to talk than to hide. Thank you for being support to me. I wish the same for you!

[Hidden in reply to Orangeblossom85]

Will always be there whenever you need sweetie, i know you've been having some bad days but remember we're stronger than our depression, we wake up everyday fighting our own minds that makes us warriors, badass ones lol 😙😙🌻

[Agora1]

Beautifully said Danielle. You are loved xx

[Hidden in reply to Agora1]

😙😚 thanks for always being there for me Agora

[Hidden in reply to Agora1]

February 15 is coming agora!!!! The chocolate always go on sales hahaha

[Agora1 in reply to Hidden]

Oh, I already have my calendar circled. I think only real Chocolatiers put more focus

on the day after a holiday. xx

[gerrerd]

very good petal

[Hidden in reply to gerrerd]

💛 thank you

[GreyeyesXander]

We'll hold your hand sunflower whenever you need

[Hidden in reply to GreyeyesXander]

And I'll hold yours thank you

[hypercat54]

Hey well done Danielle, that took courage. I used to suffer in silence as I was always used to as a child, but one day took the same step you have and things have been a whole lot better since. Onwards and upwards. x

[Hidden in reply to hypercat54]

You're right, reaching out and ask for help is definitely hard since im use to keeping things in but it felt better and i got the help and advice that helped greatly

[Taylorsunshine]

Hi Callmedanielle. I haven't posted much on the site, mostly just some replies to others post due to the fact of not wanting to bother others as you mentioned...I just wanted to tell you that I think you give out positive & inspiring advice with your responses to others post. You seem to be a very kindhearted & compassionate person & you are appreciated for that !

[Hidden in reply to Taylorsunshine]

Thanks love, it's no bother, this is a safe place to speak your mind and we'll support you cause all of us here know the daily struggle that comes with mental illness, I'll be checking up on you every chance I get, we can talk about whatever you want 💛🌻

[melbrown]

Danielle, my beautiful Sunflower🌻 It has been an honor to watch you blossom into such an amazing person. I'm so proud of you... crying happy tears. I hope you know I'm here for you, anytime.❤ Love you.

Ps. You deserve some King size KitKats for this.🍫

[Hidden in reply to melbrown]

Hi Mel lol i remember our happy dances we always do when i take a big step, you're my sweetheart and you know im always carrying a kitkat wherever i go

[melbrown in reply to Hidden]

LOL...you missed Anxiety_59's & Alan's dance party yesterday.🕺 This is a huge step for you. Think we need a dance party... I hope you, also now know you do have amazing advice & are a great friend. Big hugs. And some love for Spidey, the cutest hugest pup.

[JEG325]

You are an awesome person and you are loved by many in this, small, sometimes close knit community. We will always come together to help our much beloved friends and in my world that def includes you! Glad you sought out help and I'm letting you know I'll always be there for you....Several people called you sunflower. I can see that. You are a beautiful ray of light for all. Let your flower bask in the light of our attention to it for awhile. Have a blessed day, my friend!

[Hidden in reply to JEG325]

Hey J same goes for you, thanks for being there for all of us here

[Hidden]

Okay...take your arms and wrap them around yourself...squeeze tight...that's me giving you a hug! Hang in there...keep your power girl!!!

Dump trucks of love, peace, light, joy & hugs!!!

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Hey love im sending you all the warm hugs in the world 😙😙😙😙😙 you rock!!!

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

No selling yourself short with me...you rock too!

Dump trucks of love, peace, light, joy & hugs!!!

[LovelySnow]

Awesome, danielle. I think it feels good to reach out.

[Hidden in reply to LovelySnow]

It does it felt amazing, sending you hugs babe

[LovelySnow in reply to Hidden]

A good reminder for all of us. Thank you. And thank you for the hugs. 💓

[Hidden]

💖

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

💛🌻🌻

[Miss-P74]

Aw This is fab. 👏🏻 glad you reached out. I hope you’re feeling more positive. Go you girl ! 💪🏼. Hugs x

[Hidden in reply to Miss-P74]

Hey love thanks, i hope you're having a great weekend 😙

[Miss-P74 in reply to Hidden]

Yes thank you my lovely. All good. I’m with my grandson. Makes me happy. Hope you’re enjoying yours too beautiful 💕

[Hidden in reply to Miss-P74]

Im baking today hopefully nothing burns it's going to be a good weekend, sending you hugs

[Miss-P74 in reply to Hidden]

Oh Yum! I wish I could bake. I can cook thou! 😂 Lotsa love Hun x

[aaronm]

Hi Danielle!

[Hidden in reply to aaronm]

Hello aaronm