I can’t handle this

[Cocoon3]

I can’t handle tonight

My hubby is DRUNK & MAD at me for something 5 yrs ago, that we hv passed. He’s talking divorce , biting his lips w/ such anger in his eyes.. I’m not scared though, I’m just venting & so tired

[AZ1970]

Call the police if you feel threatened at all. You do not need to take his abuse.

[hypercat54]

Oh tell him to p*** off! He sounds like a right twat! Make 2019 the year you get your life back without him. x

[Cocoon3 in reply to hypercat54]

After so many yrs ... I’m just tired, I think I was meant to be alone I will update as I can I’m not scared though at all.. like the song says...let it be let it be

[Hidden]

Hi Cacoon3:

Sorry to hear you are going through such. I have been there too. I had an event take place with my spouse which happened a while back and they just can’t let go of it. I have to even be careful what I say because they can connect that time to almost anything.

With him talking about divorce with such anger is childish and for sure already I see you as the strong one here. I have been there so many times I just lost count.

He needs to manage his drinking and also needs to know what this is doing to you.

Since we each have been through the same pretty much, on my part I have made back up plans. Want to keep myself safe.

Which I also want for you. To stay safe.

You are strong and a smart person. Continue staying calm. I give you a lot of credit. 👍🏻😊

[Hidden]

Be very careful if you have to go stay with family or friends until this passes. Drunks are not in their right minds and sometimes even ignoring them sets them off. Be safe and take good care. Happy New Year...new beginnings ❤

[Agora1]

Cocoon3, stay safe and stay alert. xx

[tamka38]

Am scared to go over my boyfriend house because he started drinking early and just got up a hour ago and he’s not done drinking and I know it

[Gurdeep212]

Ask for his permission to have an open talk... Discuss the problems collectively and make him rember all the promises he had made when he met you the first time. Ask him to take his time instead of making the decision in a hurry...

[sherril2291]

When he is sober, maybe you could ask him if you and he could talk with someone about this. Evidently it is really bothering him inside and he needs to come to terms with it and let it go. Unforgiveness eats away the person who refuses to let go and move on. I'm sure it doesn't seem fair to you that he's holding onto this, and it's not. Hopefully he'll be open to talking with someone about it.