I think we all reply am fine. This is what it means...
When someone ask, how are you? - Anxiety and Depre...
When someone ask, how are you?
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Someone once said Fine stands for f***ed up, insecure, neurotic and emotional.
I wish I could tell people I’m not feeling fine when they ask, the problem is people always expect you to say “I’m fine” and if you say otherwise they get surprised by your answer and don’t know how to react.
Actually in real life nobody gives a f@#$. How are you is just standard thing to ask.
I do that too redfox but for those true friends I will express my true current feelings. True friends really want to know but they also know you well enough that they already know what the answer will be.
I beg to differ, let’s turn it around: You are Useful, Mended, Collected, Beautiful, ALWAYS Good Enough, Unforgettable, Precious, Amazing, Really, really cool, Lovely, & one more... DETERMINED!!! 😉
I hate the word FINE. It’s a catch-all, and people/ family/docs/ totally ignore it when we say it. ( they think, phew, I’m off the hook there). 😡... how would they react if ( just once) we say TOTALLY CRAPPY...🤭🤭...what would happen then?! ( i know.... another isolation)! AND they would never ask you again, ever!! unfortunate !!
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It's just standard way to start a conversation, nobody care enough to listen to your problem ( only few actually does).
It's so true, I always give this answer when inside I am screaming I am NOT fine but don't want to worry anyone.
I always make a smile and say am fine, and people get that, I think we're good actors we should be doing movies, lol😂
tru dat!