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Keep it a secret I've learned that's best

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I hide my problems for good reasons. Because when u tell others they start acting different or they say so u are crazy or bipolar etc. I don't like being called neither. I know I will never end up in a relationship because of my issues. Nobody wants to be bothered with a person with health and mental issues so I just try not to interact much. I'll date only because relationships nowadays aren't as good as they may have been years ago. They come with a lot of drama etc I don't need extra on my plAte.

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Hi, we cannot control people's reactions to events or new knowledge. I do think it is good to select those you let know of your condition but don't close yourself completely to dating with a purpose or to the prospect that you can be in a good relationship with someone. You deserve to be loved and cared for because you are a person like everyone else.

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Darknlovely504 in reply to stephy82

Hi, I understand what you are saying but most don't get it. Even if they have issues themselves which is crazy huh? But it's true. Then I don't want to burden others with my issues so that's why I stay single.

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