Hi

[Tech40]

I'm really struggling lately but tonight even more after what's happened tonight and my emotions are so close to coming out.

[LovelySnow]

I'm sorry. I know people are here to listen and offer support.

[Tech40 in reply to LovelySnow]

I'm struggling massively since me and kids mam break up a few months back, we have got on as friends had days out with kids.

She's been getting friendly with someone for a while now which I knew about and I've been told tonight the both in love with each other and that's hit me badly, I still have massive feelings for her but I know we won't get together again.

I'm really struggling tonight I feel I could cry for a week.

[LovelySnow in reply to Tech40]

I'm really sorry about this. It's hard not to be with somone you have strong feelings for. Really hard.

[Tech40 in reply to LovelySnow]

It's so hard having feelings for here massive feelings, the. Finding out she's in love with this new guy but on his side it's a tricky situation

[LovelySnow in reply to Tech40]

I'm so sorry.

[Tech40 in reply to LovelySnow]

It's ok I'm just struggling massively to cope with my feelings for her

[LovelySnow in reply to Tech40]

Yeah. I hear that. Feelings are powerful. So can I ask why you broke up? If you don't want to answer it's ok.

[LovelySnow in reply to Tech40]

I'm stepping away for a bit. Sending you strength.

[Tech40 in reply to LovelySnow]

I used to do things I'm not proud in the relationship, not violence or anything like that, I hate that to start with but things I'm really not proud of.

[LovelySnow in reply to Tech40]

I'm sorry. And sorry I am not good at giving advice. I hope you make it through ok and things get better.

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What’s going on? What emotions are coming out?

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Sorry for what has happened, I hope if possible you can discuss your feelings with your Wife, it may help although it sounds the relationship seems to be past that. Have you any ways you caan divert your thoughts even just for a short period that may help. I have various hobbies I fall back on when I need a breather from those upsetting, unsettling thoughts

Is there any way you can both attend a Marriage Councillor to talk out your problems and negative actions

BOB