I get this problem every year leading up to gf birthday weeks in advance thinking of stuff to get or things todo but because i get anxious and nervous i get to a day before like today and have nothing planned and no gift. Ive locked myself in the bathroom now and really upset cause yet another year i ruin her birthday. I have got enough money so thats never an issue. I want to make her feel special but my problems get in the way once again. I feel like s##t cause i always think she would get better looked after by someone else on her birthday and im a failure.