What now?

[mhunnell19]

I’m literally to the point where I’m starting to think suicide is my only way out of life. My family throws a fit when I ask for help being able to drive, my closest friends left and still to this day argue about my miscarriage and whether it happened, and the friends I do have most of them won’t believe me. Like I didn’t lose a life. I’m just done

[Hidden]

Hello!

Being at the jumping off point here just doesn’t seem to fit the crime. Is it really that important that others understand/believe that you suffered a miscarriage? Stop trying to convince them. It’s really none of their business. As long as you know it happened, who cares what they think? I would stop discussing the matter.

As far as your parents go, that’s pretty minor in the scheme of things, don’t you think? A little trouble with your parents and not being believed by friends shouldn’t take you to the jumping off point...

[Hidden]

I’m so sorry you are suffering like this. A miscarriage can cause a lot of deep emotional pain and it sounds like you don’t feel heard or seen, as if everyone wants to pretend it didn’t happen. The only way forward is to grieve your loss from the miscarriage, there maybe an online group or helpline that is focused on this. The best people to talk to are those who truly understand the pain. ❤️. You can heal from this.

[hypercat54]

I am so sorry about your miscarriage and the emotional pain you are in. I have to agree with GF though. If your family are treating you like this then stop asking for their help as it's only causing a row and upsetting you further.

As for your 'friends' words fail me! A true friend wouldn't hurt you like that and would be there to support you. Not sure they are friends... x

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Hello again...I feel the need to apologize for my rather harsh reply to “What now?” It upset/saddened me to read your, what seemed to me to be, quick and unwarranted reasons for feeling like suicide was your only way out. I’m truly sorry about your miscarriage and the inability of your friends to believe or understand you. Your family may blow you off at times, but I’m sure they love you. Correct me if I’m wrong. I sincerely hope that things look brighter for you today and I’m sorry for being too harsh. I do wish you the best...🙂

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Boy I can't imagine the pain you must be feeling! I'm sorry for the loss of your baby, that's a big one! I'm here for you!!! Wishing all the best & peace of mind! Love & Big hugs for you!!! XXX