Life of let downs

[JoanyAnne357]

I've been diagnosed with depression and anxiety for years. I have a hard time dealing with it. I have no friends anymore and my family doesn't understand me

[Katlynn]

Hi Joany! I know how you feel. I love with my daughter, and I told her today that I haven't had a cig in almost 3 weeks. She didn't even notice. How messed up is that. Nothing is more lonely then living with someone who doesn't even care

[JoanyAnne357 in reply to Katlynn]

Good for you for attempting to quit. I stopped smoking back in 1996, when my son was born. It's not easy, but congratulations!! I live with my elderly dad and my son. It's very stressful. My son disrespects me all the time and my dad is very hard to live with. I have no friends anymore and it sucks!!

[Hidden in reply to JoanyAnne357]

Hi JoanyAnne357!

I can relate to the family not understanding...mine doesn’t either, but I have decided that it’s not really necessary for them to understand. I’m the only one who can make the appropriate changes in my life! I feel like it’s my responsibility alone to deal with my depression. I see a Psychiatrist, of course, but it’s essentially my problem.

I have no real friends that I can share my life with except family. But that’s ok too! I have some superficial friends also.

Life with depression is what you make it! Accept your disease and move forward with making the most of what you’ve got! Search for the positives in your life and exercise gratitude for your many blessings...focus on the good in all situations and let go of negativity! Wishing you the best!

[Hidden in reply to Katlynn]

Well congratulations,,,,clap , clap , clap.....take your bow!!! Hugs!!! XXX

[jayel3 in reply to Katlynn]

I think we're taught from a young age that the family you're born to is supposed to care and be there for you, but sometimes that's just not the case. And you have to find a way to adjust. I hold onto the belief that there are good people out there, somewhere, my real tribe and I will connect with them some day.

[jayel3 in reply to Katlynn]

Also congrats on quitting. That's amazing!

[Juliagail]

I know I’m seen as too sensitive and too emotional by my family and closest friends but I try to remember they’re not perfect either and I know they love me. They just don’t know what to do with me. It’s very upsetting sometimes, I just want a “is everything ok?” It’s almost like it’s taboo to ask. I do forgive, I know they just don’t know how to react.

[Hidden]

First off welcome to the site!!! Many people don't understand! Can you give any information to them so they can read about what you're going through? I wish you all the best!!! XXX

[JoanyAnne357 in reply to Hidden]

Great idea!!

[Hidden in reply to JoanyAnne357]

Thank you!!! XXX

[lovedogs51511]

Hi joany!!! I'm dealing with that exact same thing. I'm at a loss and don't know what to do either. Its been extremely tough over the years. Your not alone and I wish I had great advice but I'm in the same boat as you. Lots of ppl on here will help you I hope. But your definitely not alone!!

[Magman1938]

Thanks for the post. I have had anxiety for 40 years. Ups and downs, etc. I started using CBD oil and it does help. Better than the Zoloft crap. No bad side effects like Zoloft. Keep in touch. I always have ideas cause i do a lot of research.