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So once again got my hopes up thinking I would have a friend and they canceled while I was getting ready for the hundredth time ......feeling awesomešŸ˜”

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People can be a pain in the a**. I wouldnā€™t let your self worth be dictated on how strangers treat you. If this person treated you this way I doubt they will keep many friends in the long run.

I can only infer that youā€™re being facetious? Please elaborate so we can chat!

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Wow big words. I had to look up facetious. Stop making me learn new words.

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Lol!! šŸ˜‰

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I know...since military only friend I made was my husband's friend's significant other and they moved. I tried to talk to people from work, but have no courage to ask if they want to do something. It took 6 months to speak to others who are not in my group. Just thinking about what happen to you sounds so familiar. I would be your friend if you were close! I am sure you are wonderful person.

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I always hit people up and try to be there for them and listen to theyā€™re problems but it seems they only come around when they want they know Iā€™m already super depressed yet they arent ever here for me they always make plans and come up with 10000 different reasons they canā€™t come and itā€™s just Iā€™m tired of being thrown to the dogs when Iā€™m such a nice fucking person why even freaking try man ughh idk sorry for cussing Iā€™m just tired lol idk anymore my minds everywhere and I have fucking nobody lol not even my family... because they disown me cause I have a baby I just lol idk

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Flaweddesign in reply to Sayvy

It is frustrating, some people are so wrapped up in their own world that whatever you say or suggest gets dismissed. I have wonderful friends but they are far away. I feel so alone since my husband travels days at a time. Everyone always want some attention but never want to be there for you. But remember you are better person and you will find some good friend in ypyr life that will appreciate you. Btw..your baby is adorable in the profile thing.

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Hi Sayvy!

I can empathize with you...true friends are so hard to come by. I only have one friend I feel comfortable sharing my real feelings with and sheā€™s my sister-in-law. Everyone else is strictly superficial. My very best friend passed away in December and she was my sister. I have found that relying on myself gives me the best results. Iā€™m the only one who can change anything anyway. My spirituality also helps tremendously.

Iā€™m really sorry to hear that your family has ā€œdisownedā€ you for having a child. Are they interested in seeing their grandbaby? Thatā€™s so very unfortunate on many levels. I hope you can gather some strength to work on yourself and just sit back and let them simply watch you evolve into the beautiful woman you are meant to be! Sending hugs!!

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Sayvy

Iā€™m sorry that really sucks maybe Iā€™ll find friends but I canā€™t ever get out of the house Iā€™m a stay at home mom with no car so idk how Iā€™m ever gonna meet anybody lol

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Flaweddesign in reply to Sayvy

You know my friend who has baby told me she meets people through some mommy and me classes or something. No car is rough but maybe if you go to one somehow it'll be fun. Oh my friend has social anxiety and she says it was easier for her with her baby to meet new people....uber or bus maybe? Thats tough....

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