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My husband has been on Nubeqa and has Zoladex shots since November ( 2023 ) . He finished chemo on April 18 ( 2024 ) . He has had many issues even before treatment with getting an erection and low sex drive ( doctor said it was from enlarged prostate ) . He is having a weird thing that has been occurring when he has a hot shower . He has been getting an erection during the shower ? He is wondering how this can happen and why only than .? Does anyone know what this is about ? Any others have this happen ?

Thanks for any info

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Bigdo58 profile image
Bigdo58

That lad has a memory of good times in the past! 😊

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jimreilly

I dunno, but if it were me I'd see if applying a hot wet washcloth could bring the same result, or some other heat source -- I guess heat can stimulate blood flow, but whether that's why or not, again, I dunno!

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Maxone73

I don’t know….to me it happens randomly, last time I think I was admiring a Gibson Les Paul I want to buy 😂😂😂

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Kaliber in reply to Maxone73

lol

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Maxone73 in reply to Kaliber

well, it's a good sign anyway, it used to happen to me when I was 14 and I stood in front of the musical instrument store's shop window after school :-P

Kaliber profile image
Kaliber in reply to Maxone73

Tharze a reason they call it the “ F “ hole …..

Just say’in

😂😂😂😂😂

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treedown in reply to Maxone73

That would do it for me too.

Kaliber profile image
Kaliber in reply to treedown

Lot of poking fun happening around here rotflol.

Just say’in

😂😂😂😂😂

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treedown in reply to Kaliber

Nkt aure about that 😂. Though, I wish I never sold my Les Paul, I would much like to have one now.

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Cancer2x in reply to Maxone73

Definitely a very sexy axe! 🎸

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BILIE in reply to Maxone73

HILARIOUS !!

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Maxone73 in reply to BILIE

That’s not exactly what I thought while checking the price tags!

Flash64 profile image
Flash64

I wish….

spencoid2 profile image
spencoid2

I think you need to make the shower your romantic rendezvous spot.

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Maxone73 in reply to spencoid2

that is an idea!

turkeyjoe1 profile image
turkeyjoe1

Don't waste it, you never know when it's your last one with this PC

4tunate1 profile image
4tunate1

what's an erection?😀

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Roxysdad

Any Woody is a good Woody..,.,Get on your shower cap….😂

Thanks for all the comments , they made me and my husband laugh anyways . We were just concerned this is not normal ? My husband feels like a rock star now !

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Cancer2x in reply to positive-thinking

He should feel like a rock star here! If I ever get another erection, I will be running up and down Main Street telling everyone!! (Although it seems unlikely after 29 years)

Remember the last one vividly. May 12th, 1996, 10:31 PM. Was spectacular!

Protatectomy was next morning. 😞

tsim profile image
tsim

That's excellent, was it an outside or inside?

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positive-thinking in reply to tsim

Sorry not sure what you mean ?

Kaliber profile image
Kaliber in reply to positive-thinking

Oh dear ….. rotflol 😂😂😂😂

❤️❤️❤️

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positive-thinking in reply to Kaliber

I really dont know what that means ?

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Kaliber in reply to positive-thinking

Rotflol …. Don’t worry about any of this …. It’ll probably make sense eventually, and if not, thank your lucky stars. The preceding part here is mostly meant to be sarcastically humorous …. A defense mechanism among the afflicted,…. us poor croakers.

Most of us have treatment induced genitalia shrinkage so severe, we effectively have none. And what is left broke down and quit working years ago. It’s just part of the price we pay, the sacrifice we make , for a little bit longer life.

Speaking of “ boners “ for many of is utterly ( pun ) laughable …. Sexual activity of any kind a fond memory from long ago.

Love ya

❤️❤️❤️

tsim profile image
tsim in reply to positive-thinking

I meant in your shower or out in you yard,😀

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Kaliber in reply to tsim

Rotflol …😂😂😂

Carlosbach profile image
Carlosbach

Carpe diem!

Seriously, my wife and I found that when I had any hint of an erection we would get naked and cuddle. Eventually the erections came more frequently, increased in size, and with the help of viagra, they are now common and perfectly serviceable.

Carpe Momentum ... Seize The Moment ....Jump right in there... 💛💚💙💜💯

I'm sure it has to do with the hot running water.. that it stimulating blood flow to his member... It's all GOOD!

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Professorgary

I have just started getting a few boners however they are not erections. Although my penis gets hard it points downward instead of up. If I try to lift it with my hand it won’t agree to be lifted and if I try to force it it is painful.

j-o-h-n profile image
j-o-h-n

Ramona open your Camona, you'll give me a boner.

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n

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j-o-h-n

Getting a boner during a hot water shower is what I call positive-thinking....

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n

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j-o-h-n

Now tell the truth does your dear hubby use that soap that looks like a donut?

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n

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tad4

Lucky bastard! Suggest you do not waste this opportunity, lol!

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