Hi all! First timer on HealthUnlocked. I feel like I'm writing a MySpace post.
I'm Tory. A little about me, I got diagnosed with ADD when I was 8 years old. I was in 2nd grade. I remember my teacher being frustrated in regard to how I really had trouble listening. I also kept on getting out of my seat often.
I also had a really difficult time befriending people and maintaining those friendships. I couldn't understand normal socialization for children of my age. I could not, for the life of me, understand social cues. Because of this, and because of how I acted growing up, I currently do not have a lot of close friends. I met my first genuine friends in university. I have very strong suspicions that I could be on the autism spectrum, but very lightly on that spectrum. I don't think it's necessary for me to get that testing at my age. I don't think it'll help me. It's just another thing to be cognisant about.
I had to get re-diagnosed again at 25 because I wanted to establish care with an ADHD clinic. I was newly diagnosed with the "H" in ADD - so ADHD. I was also newly diagnosed with "mixed anxiety and depression disorder". I know I have anxiety, and a high form of it. I also have a lot of symptoms of depression, but have not officially been clinically diagnosed with such.
Adulting as a young adult with ADHD has been such a challenge. In every way. Medication does help, but my brain cannot keep up for the life of me. I'm having trouble in a lot of aspects of my life. I've spent about three years in a call center which has put tremendous stress on me. The last year and a half got significantly worse with me getting a job in a medical call center. Nothing I did was good enough for my management in that role. I would get into "performance management" or get writtens because I wasn't up to par with the position (even though I've been hitting 93% last month on my quality assurances). Point is, that job opened up my eyes to what discrimination of someone with a neurodivergent disability could be like. The job made me learn to advocate for myself, even if the requests I ask for make management roll their eyes (which actually did happen, btw).
Today, right now, I'm happy to say that I got a fresh new job offer for my dad's client and I'll be starting work in late April. I'm happy to say that and leave the work trauma of my medical call center experience behind me.
So, yeah. That's my story in a nutshell. Feel free to ask me any other questions you see fit! So excited to meet you all!