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Lupercal

New to this community. Diagnosed twice before 16, but stopped treatment after high school. I didn't know ADHD is so much more than difficulty paying attention!

I didn't realize how much ADHD is behind a lot of my issues until relatively recently. My marriage is in shambles and I need HELP. I began taking adderall again about a month ago, but I need some kind of individual therapy/coaching to help me learn proper ways of managing my ADHD.

I'm specifically looking for someone that is covered by Kaiser, but I don't know where to search . Calling Kaiser's Mental Health number has been very unhelpful; "We don't have anyone that specializes in ADHD, but all our providers are trained Psychiatrists, so they'll have experience with it."

Can someone please point me in the right direction?

Thank you.

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Ask you tried Google?

I saw a link on the CHA AD website For ADHD coaches and there is another link to an organisation that's specialises in therapist that for ADHD.

And actually find it very interesting that adhd is being blamed for our inability to successfully be in relationships when nobody's actually shown us how to successfully be in relationships no one ever modelled it for us and we didn't get a class in high school. But somehow worse post about how to manage our trauma, our reactions, our emotions and perfect little robots.

Be careful. I've seen a story about Kaiser suggesting they may not be the most ADHD-friendly company to deal with. From: washingtonpost.com/health/h... :

"Over three visits with her managed-care plan doctor at Kaiser-Permanente in San Francisco, Crawford, 57, a busy mother of two and professional editor, complied with urine and blood tests some doctors require to rule out drug abuse, and was checked for any preexisting heart condition that might make stimulants too risky.Then came the last step: a telephone interview.

“What kind of student were you in elementary school?” she remembers the psychiatrist asking.

“I was an A student,” Crawford answered.

“I’m sorry,” he said, as Crawford recalled. “You don’t meet the qualification for ADHD and we can’t give you medication.”

“I couldn’t believe it,” Crawford said later. Two private therapists had already told her she had ADHD, she said. But her plan’s psychiatrist said it was company policy to deny diagnosis and medication if a patient had done well in school as a child.

This left Crawford with the option of paying several hundred dollars for a private psychiatrist’s evaluation, plus recurring costs for new prescriptions over time. For now, she’s not pursuing that. After her three appointments, “I just felt exhausted,” she said."

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Stephen Faraone, a leading ADHD researcher at SUNY Upstate Medical University, said many physicians mistakenly deny ADHD treatment to patients with a good academic track record, but that he didn’t know to what extent this might be formal policy among health insurers.

Representatives for two other managed health-care plans, Aetna and UnitedHealth Group, said they had no such policy. In response to questions about Crawford’s case, a Kaiser spokeswoman emailed a statement that didn’t address the specifics but concluded: “Our priority is to tailor the clinical evidence we have to an individual patient’s needs in order to support his or her well-being.”

Thanks, yeah I've already had less than stellar support from Kaiser.

I actually tried to get started on ADHD treatment through them over a year ago, before the pandemic started, and both of the Mental Health providers I talked to were very dismissive; "why do you need ADHD medication if you're not in school?", "You just have anxiety." I ended up not following up with them because of how discouraged I felt. And I can't help but feel that things would be much better, now, had they been more supportive.

In any event, that's why I'm trying to find someone that's outside of Kaiser, but still covered by them (at least in part), if that's even possible? And I'm just not having luck finding a list of local providers that Kaiser works with our getting useful info from Kaiser, themselves.

I just really can't afford to be paying out of pocket ~$200 per session for someone that isn't covered.

After doing a quick search, it really looks like this has been a persistent pattern of behavior for Kaiser :(Source: dmhc.ca.gov/AbouttheDMHC/Ne... )

"The California Department of Managed Health Care (DMHC) announced today that it has reached an agreement with Kaiser Foundation Health Plan, Inc. (Kaiser Permanente) to correct identified issues with the plan’s oversight of and access to behavioral health services."

Also, there’s this collection of people's experiences with Kaiser that supports this impression (source: nuhw.org/kaiser-dont-deny/p... ); here's one that mentions ADHD:

"MY SON HAS AUTISM, ADHD, DEPRESSIVE DISORDER, AND ANXIETY

Published Saturday, October 12, 2019 #

My son has autism, ADHD, depressive disorder, and anxiety. He has been hospitalized three times. Before all of his hospitalizations, there were warnings signs and severe behaviors that needed to be addressed. If we had been able to schedule an appointment rather than exchanging phone calls, his hospitalizations could gave been prevented. He is more stable now, but we only get to see his psychiatrist every six months. Urgent appointments are not available if a crisis happens. I also feel they are lacking therapists specializing in kids. All of my son’s hospitalizations were outside of Kaiser, and we’ve had to see therapists outside of Kaiser because Kaiser lacks the resources and facilities to handle mental health care.

April

Santa Clarita"

There's a part at the end of the first article you may find particularly interesting as someone in the state of California: 😉

"If a consumer is experiencing difficulty accessing care they should file a grievance with their health plan. If they are not satisfied with their health plan’s resolution of the grievance or have been in their plan’s grievance system for 30 days, they should contact the DMHC Help Center for assistance by calling 1-888-466-2219 or at HealthHelp.ca.gov."

Hi

I would check with your local CHADD group, they should have resources that can help you find the help you are seeking. Just curious as to where about you are located...

I also have had several marriage issues, then I opened up and discussed with my wife my brain and how it works sometimes.... knowing ADHD is not going away, it made it a little easier for us to communicate and try to turn things around...

Good Luck

Keep me posted if you like👍

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Lupercal in reply to Nick1913

Thank you. I'm in the coastal Los Angeles area. I see there is a local CHADD chapter. I'll definitely try contacting them.

Unfortunately, between the pandemic and my wife's line of work, things have gotten to a breaking point for her. ADHD seems like just an excuse to her. We've started couples therapy, but it's clear that I need someone to work just with me on managing ADHD.

Hope things with you and your wife are going well.

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Nick1913 in reply to Lupercal

We are getting better, thank you. There are a lot of dynamics to a relationship, ADHD is not an excuse but a reason... with coaching you can turn some things around,

It’s like needing glasses... you can’t see where you are going... but once you have the right glasses you can see very well...

Once I was diagnosed I understood a lot of the things I did, but more importantly for me I learned why... non ADDers... neurotypicals see it as an excuse, but we know it is the reason, and knowing that we can work on stuff 👍

I am sorry you have had trouble with your insurance. It is hard enough as an adult to get the medication for ADHD.- I have insurance but I have to use GoodRX to get a discount on my medication because my health insurance doesn't approve ADHD meds for adults. I see a counselor, but she has to say she is seeing me for anxiety, rather than ADHD- and it's true, I do have a lot of anxiety, but it makes me mad that my health insurance won't approve therapy for ADHD.

As far as you needing to see a counselor v. marriage counseling, maybe it would be good to do both? I would suggest two different counselors, though, so your wife doesn't feel the counselor is skewed in your favor. I would also suggest educating yourself about ADHD as much as possible, by reading books about it, and then you can explain to your wife that there actually is a problem with three neurotransmitters in the brain that can cause the symptoms, and it causes problems in the executive functioning in the brain. You can even say, I understand you are angry about my behavior, but I am trying to address the problem. Maybe the marriage counselor can help with her viewpoint.

I just read the book Women with Attention Deficit Disorder, and I know that isn't real helpful to you, except that it mentioned that the non-ADHD partner has to go through the grief cycle to come to terms with the ADHD in their spouse. And the first stage of grief is denial. So the good thing is, she is on her way to acceptance....eventually. Take care.

Thank you. There is definite a LOT of anxiety that comes with my ADHD. The result of a lifetime of failures, real and perceived.

We have already started sessions with a marriage therapist and I do think that is helping. So, now I am looking for my own separate counsel to focus on me and my issues, so that I am better able to function and contribute to us.

I've read quite a bit already. And I've tried to get my wife to read up a bit too. I got her to read some of "The ADHD Effect on Marriage" and she agreed that it describes, almost verbatim, our issues. But, I think right now, she still feels like ADHD invalidates her experiences with our various problems. It doesn't though. I still did(or mostly didn't do) those things. ADHD is not an excuse, just explanation. So, hopefully she just needs a little more time.

I haven't read the ADHD Effect on Marriage. My first marriage was to a man I am sure has ADHD as well, but in addition to that he was verbally abusive. Now, I'm married to a man who has some of the traits of ADHD but because of it, has accepted me and all my foibles with love and compassion. He had an advantage in that he knew about ADHD and knew about MY ADHD before we ever got involved. I pray for the same acceptance for you, from your wife. I did read that a non ADHD spouse can feel like they are expected to just suddenly stop being angry for the things the ADHD spouse did before getting help, and it's not that easy. I can see how she might feel like it invalidated her experience, and would be resistant to the acceptance of ADHD, but I'm sure you must feel some hope in that she is attending marriage counseling, and was willing to read part of the book you mentioned!

Kaiser has a less than stellar reputation for mental health. You may wind up needing to hire an attorney or contact the Health Consumer Alliance or Health Consumer Action Center at the Legal Aid Society if access to appropriate specialists is not given to you.

Hi there! I am a Kaiser patient, so I'll share my experience.

I've had to fight to get assigned to a counselor at Kaiser twice in the past two years, even when going through somewhat of a crisis. By "fight" I mean, be on the phone, email, for hours just bugging the crap out of them until I got help.

That said, the two counselors I've ended up with are just wonderful, so in my experience, the problem is definitely the system, not the therapists at Kaiser.

Then I realized I probably have ADHD. So Kaiser assigned me to a psychiatrist, and that did not go so well. He did not want to consider evaluating me for ADHD until I went through months of therapy for depression. I kept saying my depression is likely made worse by ADHD, but I could not get him to even agree to evaluate me. Oh and yeah, I had to do a pee test to rule out substance abuse, which was a little humiliating. It didn't start us out on the right foot.

Exasperated, I went out on my own and paid $200 for evaluation and treatment through a telemedicine group associated with UCSF. I now get my prescription sent to Costco, which out of pocket is actually cheaper than Kaiser's rate for covered prescriptions.

So now I continue go to Kaiser for my regular therapy, but to date have not been able to get ADHD-specific counseling.

I'm fortunate to have a decent job right now, so I'm probably going to pay out of pocket for short-term ADHD counseling soon. I just decided the exasperation with Kaiser wasn't worth the added stress. But like I said, I'm glad I can afford to pay a little for counseling.

If you haven't already, I would call the main office of the providers and ask to speak with someone who could help you find the provider who had the most experience with ADHD.

By the way, here are some resources that might help you find a therapist in your area (with filters for insurance, specialty, etc.) if you didn't already know about them:

zocdoc.com/search?address=L...

psychologytoday.com/us/ther...

inclusivetherapists.com/sea...

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