I'm having problems with my relationships

[LunaBean]

When I'm in a romantic relationship exclusively with someone, I easily get bored with them, I only get excited the first 3 months or so. But when we were still crushes and is in the "getting to know" phase , I'll be excited when I'm with them even after 3 years.

Do anyone have similar problems?

[positivepassenger]

Good Morning---

Saw this post and immediately had to share a video from "How To ADHD" regarding relationships and it is SPOT ON....

Let me know what you think and if it might help!

I have been with my spouse for 9 years married for 4 and I have to say COMMUNICATION is key but also being super super open about my condition...

youtu.be/XbyN8REIhMk(Not working as expected?)

[happyhermit in reply to positivepassenger]

That is brilliant.

[ADHDArchitect]

It’s the same reason that those of us with adhd have a hard time finishing projects. Our attention is peaked when we are excited and serotonin/dopamine is rushing in our in brains then it becomes mundane and we lose interest. I can tell you it won’t be as exciting and interesting 3-5-10 years into a relationship but not everything will/should be exciting all the time.