I'm being told at work that I need to notice social subtleties, and after thinking about it overnight, I couldn't come up with a solution. I just DON'T notice social subtleties, and I need people to be blunt with me. What can I tell my boss about this? I already started the conversation about ADHD and said I'm working on finding a therapist/psychologist that can help me figure it out, but isn't there already an answer out there somewhere? Please, if you have any examples or study results, etc., send them my way.