Hi there. I’m pretty new this forum, and this is my first time posting. I’m mostly just looking to out our story out there, hoping others can relate.
Ever since my son was little he’s had problems with anger, zero frustration tolerance, irritable, agitation , impulsiveness . He was diagnosed with anxiety by a pediatric behavioral specialist a few years ago, and is in a low dose of sertraline. There was what we think a mild improvement, but it’s really up and down. He is very argumentative, disrespectful, and defiant. We have done numerous Vanderbilt forms over the bast 3 years. Some with the behavioral specialist, and some with the pediatrician. Resulting in possible adhd. It’s never been 100% a yes. He had started seeing a therapist, but it was during the pandemic and remote just wasn’t working. She had since retired, and we have struggled with getting him in elsewhere. It is so hard to see his behavior as involuntary vs choice. I know he would never chose to be in trouble all if the time, but it’s really a struggle to not get angry and constantly discipline his poor behavior. Especially when he hits his sister or is cruel to her.
we have tried stimulants (focalin xr), but it didn’t really seem to help. Mostly what we saw was increased agitation, restlessness, and he was withdrawn and emotional. We see a psychiatrist in a few weeks to figure out the next steps.
We just want our boy to get all of the help he can to set him up for a good life. I so badly want him to be confident, and not feel like a bad kid. It’s incredibly stressful for the whole family.
to everyone else who is struggling with not knowing if you are making the right choices for your kids. You are not alone.
thank you for your time