A few times in the past I said my grandson had a few friends.
It's us mostly true, today I reminded if the cruelty if kids or in particular one kid and he can change the rules if engagement with just a few words. Grandson can be outside play when the boy next doesnt want to pkay him, so he gas the magnetic personality to have all thw kids go to house where he tells my grandson can come over here, i dint want yiu here. I noticed not one kid would stand up and say if he can't be here then I shouldn't be here either.
Grandson all a few friends playing baseball with him, everybody was happy, until the neighbor comes out and tries to get my grandson and the kid to fight.
We had such a peaceful winter, now it's summer all the school will be out for summer break and here the problems begins. They will friends some days and fighting the next. My daughter and I will get upset and call him into the house because we're upset that we can't tell this little boy to leave Marqi alone. A reminder of summers past.
We try to keep him busy with activities everyday, but there are some days when we just want to sit at home watch him ride his bike or skateboard.
How do get the kids to understand that all Marqi really wants to play, just play. My daughter thinks that the neighbor boy is jealous of Marqi because he's really good at riding his bike, skateboarding, bouncing a basketball. I don't think that's the problem, the two boys are nearly 2 years apart age wise but the other boy is much older in his head.
What are we doing wrong or where did we go wrong? One minute we tell him to fight back, use his training to defind himself and in another we're bringing him in because we know he's fighting a losing battle by not telling Marqi how to stand up to his bully!