There are no support groups in my area so I came across this community through a desperate Web search. I have 4 kids ages 14-3 months. My 7 year old son and husband are both ADHD. My son is on a low dose of medication and my husband is unmedicated. My house is constant chaos and I feel like my husband is a 5th child rather than my partner most of the time. Does anyone else have a similar situation? How do you manage?