I am so happy to have found this forum! I've been reading through some conversations and I'm right there with you guys. I have an 8 year old son with ADHD who recently started medication and 5 year old twins with ADHD and ODD. The twins behavior is very difficult to manage, especially at school. I am educating myself as much as I can and I've been happy to learn that this is not due to my failure as a parent! I am starting to feel isolated because no one really seems to understand and I feel the weight of their judgement. I don't blame them. I've judged as well before I was in the situation myself, but I'm glad I can come here and talk to other parents who are in the same boat.