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Hi, I have had irregular since day one, I have PCOS and I have been having unprotected sex with my partner for 4 going on 5 years now, I am now almost 6 weeks pregnant, having PCOS doesnt stop your chance of getting pregnant, are bodies are delicate and stressing about getting pregnant can lower your chance, In the month before I got pregnant I was finally at peace with the fact that I might never get pregnant finally realising that having a baby isnt the most important thing in the world, the moral of my story is so meny women stress so much about not being able to get pregnant but in reality it going to happen it just takes time and you must be patient because thinking to much about it isnt going to higher your chance. So please if u need any advice, help or just someone to talk to please message me, its easier to talk to someone that is going through the same thing other then someone who is only telling you things from the internet or a book.

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asbayford

I second this! Been trying over 10 years and the moment I gave up and left it to God - I fall pregnant. Typical right? Congratulations! I'm 7 weeks so we're in the same boat :)

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Abitheanimalqueen1 in reply toasbayford

So meny people have spent thousands of pounds on IVF and eventually end up just getting pregnant the natural way, stressing is one of the main causes for infertility, it sucks because you cant help but stress, congratulations I'm so happy for you.

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Tigr

Congratulations! It really depends what your body and mind are doing. A few people might get quite a bit upset because they get the "just be less stressed" from friends and family a lot and their body just really cannot do it due to medical conditions. It puts the "Why are things not working?" on them which is not fair. Some people with pcos do still ovulate but some just don't, and all the de-stressing in the world would not solve that. For those who need to hear this now: It is ok to get help and is really not a sign of not enough trust in nature, god, your body or not enough patience or relaxation or mindfulness ❤ I am sure you wanted to encourage people and give them some hope and it is really nice you are offering help. This is such a sensitive topic, just wanted to leave this here for those who might have gotten triggered 🌻

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Abitheanimalqueen1 in reply toTigr

I want to try and help as meny people as I can, if it's being a friend or just a stranger to talk to, I went through this by myself because my family didnt understand my pain and they didnt understand infertility so talking to them didnt help me be stress free or even be happy all I wanted was for someone to understand and I want to give people support and help and just be there for the low times because there is nothing worse then facing infertility alone.

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Teejaymams in reply toTigr

Thank you for saying this! Infertility is such a complex problem that telling people "relax your mind" is neither a cure nor helping. If anything, it makes the person feel it's their fault because they are not relaxed. Peace.

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Mia898

How amazing for you . Congratulations . I have sent you a private message .

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Saladgirl86

Thank you hun for your encouraging words and also congratulations lush to hear some happy news xxx

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Teejaymams

I have PCOS, I've been described as a very relaxed and happy person, and I am. I'm in my 40s. I stopped TRYING after 10yrs. I'm not pregnant. I'm considering adoption. I'm delighted for you. But please, try not to simplify the problem of infertility to "just relax" because that's simply not true for everyone. Congratulations once again. Peace.

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Pearl15

Hey Thanks so much for your reply. It really does make me feel positive. Also I wanted to know if you are taking or took any medication? Like vitamins or anything else?

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