I understand that this is a fear of many people using this forum.
It is important to understand that the NHS, the Care Quality Commission and the General Medical Council expect patients to give feedback both positive and negative. For the sake of brevity I’ll just write about giving negative feedback in the form of a complaint.
As the CQC says if they don’t what is going wrong they can’t put it right.
The NHS expects patients to complain in the NHS Constitution
Each surgery has to seek both positive and negative feedback from its service users (patients). In other words a complaints system. This is a legal duty that is monitored by the CQC.
The GMC make it very clear that a doctor must not “de list” a patient just for making a complaint in their ethical guidance “Ending your professional relationship”.
By making it explicitly clear that delisting is not appropriate when a patient makes a complaint the GMC also make it clear that a complaint is not the same as a break down of a doctor/patient relationship.
Being abusive or violent are good reasons to support the break down of the doctor/patient relationship
But complaining isn’t.
The GMC also expects doctors to apologise when they make mistakes.
Patients must not be afraid of doctors. The law and the GMC say that doctors must work in partnership with patients and patients have every right to complain when doctors do not meet the standards expected of them by the law and the GMC. In fact the NHS expects patients to complain.
Hopefully armed with information that complaining should be a normal part of a relationship with a doctor patients will feel more confident in making complaints.
My view is that complaining is not about punishing a doctor. Complaining is about highlighting deficiencies and facilitating change for the better.
Complaining is about
detailing the thing that the patient feels is wrong,
Detailing the harm caused by the thing that went wrong
providing some form of evidence to support the complaint
and where possible proving a reasonable solution that will rectify the thing that went wrong.
I also put what will happen if the thing that went wrong and caused harm isn’t put right in my work letters. At work I have to let the people I regulate know what the possible consequences for non compliance are as a legal requirement.
The best complaints, in my view, are those that keep to the facts of what went wrong what the harm was backed up by evidence, written in fairly clear and unemotional terms.