Hi all I’m new to this group.
I’ve decided to join to get some advice since I’m so confused I’m only 17 and I’ve had something wrong with me for 8 months now (since the end of February) and I’ve gone for so many different tests and doctors haven’t got a clue what’s wrong with me I feel like they don’t even really understand how bad it is.
I haven’t been diagnosed with sjogren’s and I’m not sure if I have it or not but whether I have it or not I’m pretty sure something is wrong with my salivary glands but I’m not sure about what it could be. I don’t get sjogren’s symptoms like dry mouth or pain but I’ve got so much swelling around my face and neck and it keeps going up and down but when it flares up it feels so uncomfortable, not because of pain but because I can feel the swelling there like my skin is tightening or stretching where the swelling is.
I get other symptoms too like fatigue, muscle weakness, worsened anxiety, feeling like there’s a lump in my throat and hair loss.
I only get dryness in my eyes and no where else in my body and I can only tell that they are dry when I cry because each time I cry my eyes actually sting to the point where I can’t cry anymore cause my eyes sting that much. it feels so much worse then when I get shampoo in my eye.
I get swelling in the sides of my face under my ears (one side is usually more swollen then the other), around my jaw, down the front and sides of my neck
And in my mouth the insides of my cheeks are swollen, the back of my throat where my tonsils are, are red and only a little bit swollen and I have very bad swelling under both sides of my tongue.
Also the bit of gum that attaches my tongue to the bottom of my mouth has a few bumps on it. And when I move my tongue saliva squirts out of them so I’m not sure if it’s the opening of the sublingual salivary gland duct and it’s blocked or something? But it’s never done that before.
It’s so weird I feel like I keep getting new symptoms all the time. 8 months ago when it first started it came on so suddenly I was just sitting in bed reading before I went to sleep when suddenly I got the feeling of a lump being stuck in my throat I thought it was a tablet that had gotten stuck there since I had a tablet earlier that night I went to go look at the back of my throat in the mirror to see if I could see anything and my tonsils looked so red and swollen and looked like they had pus on them I looked up things on google and everything pointed to tonsillitis. I was at my grandparents house for a holiday at the time and they gave me some honey and tea and then went back to bad cause it was late at night then the next day I started to get breathing problems so they rushed me to the hospital but the doctor told me that my throat looked fine and didn’t look as bad as other teens throats they’d seen and that I was ok even though I obviously wasn’t. So I went home only to have the same breathing problems happen to me the following night so I was rushed back again to the hospital just to be told the same thing that I looked fine and that it was probably just a panic attack. But they sent me home with antibiotics just in case. Since then it’s become so much more then just tonsillitis. The antibiotics never worked and I’ve had 4 lots of antibiotics just in the last 8 months I’ve been for numerous tests every few weeks just to be told I’m fine every single time.
I don’t feel fine at all I always look swollen and there’s always the feeling of a lump in my throat. And I always feel so weak and tired. It’s absolutely awful it’s taken over my whole life and I feel like at this point I’m never going to get any answers and that I’ll never get better. I have my good days and bad days I’m so grateful for my good days but they are far and few in between I only have a good week probably one week per month and I have 3 or 4 bad weeks before another good week comes and when I have my bad weeks they are bad. I lose all my energy and feel like doing nothing.
I’ve had all sorts of tests to check what’s wrong like blood tests, thyroid tests, ultrasounds and ct scans. The blood test showed high testosterone and insulin resistance but nothing to do with my throat and face and neck. And every thing else came back normal.
I’m thinking of going back to the doctors next week and specifically asking them to check my salivary glands. Cause the swelling feels so uncomfortable on either side of my face it feels like a mass in each cheek.
Until then I need some advice on how to make the swelling and discomfort go away. I’ve already tried strepsils, spoonfuls of honey, lemon and cinnamon tea, antihistamines, warm compresses, massaging the swollen areas and extra water. But nothings working.
Also has anyone had a similar problem to me and what was your diagnosis?
Thanks ❤️