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A fall, an MRI gone wrong and clean PET Scan

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Travel and medical update.. apologies for this long post… but I want to write this as a record for myself (and my chemo addled brain) and also want to update many of you kind souls who encouraged me to JUST GO on my month long trip to in Auckland NZ.

Just to orient some of you who have been so supportive: I am the crazy mother who had her daughter up on a billboard in Times Square earlier this year.

The issue I am updating you on now is that I had a bad fall one week before the departure of my big trip. It was caused by my exuberant dog Toby who knocked my legs out from under me frim behind… I never even saw him coming!

I landed on my wrist, left hip and unfortunately my back. I felt well enough to jump up and yell at Toby in frustration as I instantly worried that my long planned for solo trip would be jeopardized by the fall.

Let me interject that I am so disappointed in this turn of events as just last month I enjoyed a “SURGE of GOOD HEALTH” as I called it.

On vacation in Maine, I Ebiked all over acadia national park and even climbed my fav small mountain to swim in the glacial formed pond at the top… yes at the top!

(If you like, Google Sargent Pond near Bar Harbor Maine)

I loved it so much I climbed and swam across the pond two separate times! I was amazed that it appeared that Verzenio at how vigorous I was able to be every day! … plus my 3cm lymph node on my neck shrunk back to just barely noticeable and I had all this energy and no fatigue! I had a good scan in June with stable disease and now had to have another one just days before I was scheduled to fly….to see if all was still stable… ir moving on to xeloda.

I had the PET scan on Tuesday and that night my oncologist of almost 20 years called with the great news that now 2 scans in a row showed NOTHING lighting up except for the darn lymph node and that was in fact much smaller.

All was well but for the dog knocking me over onto the hard road.

DARN! An urgent X-ray showed that I needed an MRI… The MRI was loud and long and horrible just like you all remember.

BUT if an MRI would give me reassurance that this back injury was minor and wouldn’t lead to paralysis after sitting too long on a flight half way around the world, then it would be worth it right?

I was surprised but THRILLLED when I got the news that MRI was normal.. no cancer and no fracture in my thoracic spine. My primary care doc phoned to tell me to enjoy my trip because MRI was good.

Only then did I finally pack my bags! It was the day before a month long trip! Who does that? Me I guess.

I flew off the next day (Sept 2)to California to spend 2 nights with a friend in LAW thankful this allowed me to break up the nearly 24hr of flights to Auckland NZ from Boston MA.

Los Angeles was like a furnace- over 100F both days!

Shortly after I arrived, my hubby called to tell me that the MRI folks wanted me to come back in stat… as in urgently… to do the whole thing over cuz they only looked at the top of my spine and not the lumbar region which is what I needed! Can you believe that? When they told me my “thoracic” spine was all good how would I know they didn’t do the correct area. So I just thanked them.

The MRI group called and gave me the all clear to fly… but they did so without without actually filming the body part in question.

The order got written mistakenly to not include the lumbar region. My primary care asked the radiologist if they could still “see” down there… but no luck and they then wanted me to come back urgently for a do-over.

Now I’m here in NZ and have some worrying tingling in my right outer fingers and right toes, I remain very uncomfortable. Yikers!

I am naturally concerned…so I got in to see in a physical therapist in the morning to assess…and may be able to get in for (another) MRI… this time of the much needed lumbar region.

I will be able to see my old oncologist at some point…but would like to have the scan first.

This tingling is worrying as my tumor was in my L-1 … my understanding is that is now a very weak spot in my spine.

I’m lucky to have Verzenio … I was on Ibrance for 18 months but stopped working… Dr wanted to try the sister drug before moving away from the class….

And so lucky it is working!

So unlucky to have a bad fall and then have a “medical misadventure” as such things are called here in New Zealand.

I used to think I liked all kinds of adventures… but not this kind. Thanks for reading along.

Your sister in this journey, all typos are to be excused and blamed on jet lag!

Beth

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LibraryGeek profile image
LibraryGeek

Beth, what a time you are having! Mostly good news by the sound of it, and hopeful your next MRI will not cause anynew problems. The photo is wonderful- looks so idyllic- and the trip to Maine sounds fab.

Keeping everything crossed for you.

Jackie x

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Bettybuckets in reply toLibraryGeek

I’m not too positive with numbness in my outer fingers and at first toes but now my right foot. Hopeful the physical therapist will help in the morning.

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LibraryGeek in reply toBettybuckets

Good luck xx

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Bettybuckets in reply toLibraryGeek

The physical therapy has helped and made me feel hopeful.

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LibraryGeek in reply toBettybuckets

That is good news- keep the faith!

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Georgiamjb

So glad you went on your trip after all that work! Hoping the PT will be helpful too!

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Bettybuckets in reply toGeorgiamjb

Thank you it did and I have exercise for my core which will help my back.

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bracelets1

Beautiful picture! What a crazy merry-go round! And I am sending prayers and hugs that the PT will do well for you.

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Timtam56

Beth. I hope you're going okay in NZ. And I hope this tingling just goes away. Can you please tell me when you said that you came off Ibrance because it stopped working... What are the signs when it stopped working do you remember?

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Bettybuckets in reply toTimtam56

my Dr suspected but was not sure.. he was concerned about my biomakers rising, snd I had just had foundation med next gen sequencing snd could see things that meant I still receptive to estrogen blockade I think. And I think my lymph node was starting to get bigger. In light of all that, He wanted to try switching CDK4-6 before leaving the class behind for xeloda… if Verzenio didn’t work then he would change but it has for 2 scans!

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AvidBooklover

Are you set up for an MRI in NZ? I believe I know an author there and I can ask her advice if you are not. I know it's a big country, but happy to try to help. If there is a break, flying could be more torture than you want to think about.

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Bettybuckets in reply toAvidBooklover

so kind of you…I’m going to wait a bit. Hoping PT will work.

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Contrarielle

oh my goodness! If the tingling in your r foot doesn't worsen, you can go to the toilet normally and walk OK i say enjoy the holiday! If your recent PT ct was fine you are unlikely to have a pathological fracture. Could you just pay for a private appt with an NZ onc so you can continue your holiday? It was such a nice day here today in Northland tho i spent the first half getting my port in. Hope you have a lovely sunny day tomorrow. Do let us know how you get on x

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Bettybuckets in reply toContrarielle

hello dear! It was such a lovely day here in Orewa too… I walked the beach.. Physio recommends I swing my arms when I walk. I need to phine my old wonderful onc whom I saw privately when I had southern cross insurance… and will now just pay to see her. Her name is Dr Karen Aimes. Truly a lovely person and Onc- at Harbour Oncology on the shore. I had a port the first time around. Stuck out horribly. Bet they are smaller by now. Thanks so much…

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Timtam56 in reply toBettybuckets

oh Beth. I’ve been to orewa. My best friend comes from there. Enjoy. Take care.

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Bettybuckets in reply toTimtam56

it’s lovely and flat snd the beach is just so lovely. I am happy to be back!

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Contrarielle in reply toBettybuckets

I'm so pleased to hear you got out on the beautiful beach. And i hope you get to see Dr Aimes. If not, I impressed with my lead onc Dr Abbey Wrigley and licum Dr Naera Waters, both of whom are at Canopy cancer care in Epsom. But for now its the weekend so enjoy yourself! P.s. my port looks like it might be a bit visible- i will wear a lot of crew necks this summer!

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Bettybuckets in reply toContrarielle

I know abbey and Neara from ashen I worked at pfizer…. Karen used to be at canopy so I know it well. Good suggestion!

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Beryl71

Just hang on in there and hope you get the attention and answers you need. Lots of love Carolyn x

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Bettybuckets

thanks so much Beryl.

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DDIL1

What a crazy thing happen. I hope the next MRI is the right one and you get your answers. Enjoy your trip.

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love2golfwell

Wow, you have been having quite the adventure. I am so happy you were able to do this trip. I do hope the physical therapy will help alleviate the issues you are experiencing. You ae definitely a fighter! Sending you hugs and prayers.

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Bettybuckets in reply tolove2golfwell

thanks! I’m resting up to be less tired for tonight’s 21st… I have to walk to the bus… with my roller overnight bag change bus at the hub and then get picked up by a friend in the city… so likely to be tired just getting to the party! But this will be a highlight for me since I have watched emelia grow from a baby and excited they are doing the party while I am here!

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love2golfwell in reply toBettybuckets

Hope you have a wonderful time at the party! Take care.

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Bettybuckets in reply tolove2golfwell

such a lovely party… about 40 people and I knew almost all of them from over the years of my 30 year friendship with her mum!

Emelia at 21
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love2golfwell in reply toBettybuckets

What a lovely young lady. So glad you had a good time and were able to visit with so many people you knew. Moments like these are what life is all about.

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Totheriver

Hope things work out for you and that you can have a great trip!

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Fiercefighter13

Oh my goodness so much going on!! I'm glad you are on your trip, and enjoying your life! I hope that the tingling feeling you are having settles down so that you can focus and enjoy your trip. Thinking of you, and wishing you a beautiful and fun trip, and a clean MRI when you get back. Sometimes inflammation can cause your symptoms, without it being anything serious. Post lots of lovely pics for us!! Take care!

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Bettybuckets

hello FF13- yes I worried that all the inflammation would jump start my cancer which recent Pet scan said was behaving…or maybe it was all the fluid issues from long flight but my neck Lumph node feels a bit bulging again…and hoping. It will settle.

I’m determined to enjoy the 21st party for a dear friends daughter tonight in the city and stay over with them. This is the one thing I had planned and will rest up today so I won’t be too tired to enjoy it!

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Bettybuckets in reply toBettybuckets

such a lovely party!

Emelia 21st
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Aprilfoolz1

Enjoy your trip to NZ :) it's good that you have connections there to doctors and hopefully everything sorts out and the numbness dissipates . Also , thanks for the update:)

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stardust1965

Beth, you have good back-up if you need it (everyone knows everyone there, right!😂). So I hope you can relax and enjoy your time in Auckland catching up with friends and revisiting your old haunts. Will you get back to Waiheke Island while you are there? It’s so beautiful.

I hope the 21st was wonderful and it took your mind off your health issues for a bit.

I love this photo of you cycling on the beach! Keep enjoying yourself and hopefully you can wait until you return to the States before being a patient again. 🤞

Vicki

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Bettybuckets in reply tostardust1965

hi Vicki thanks so much for cheering me on. Yes will get out to waiheke island where I used to live. I’ve rented a gorgeous old villa which reminds me of my old house and I am hosting a group of my BFFs. Here is a pic of it

Villa
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stardust1965 in reply toBettybuckets

Oh my! That is quite beautiful- I’m packing my bags! 😂

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Bettybuckets in reply tostardust1965

This will be the highlight of my trip of course. Decided to splurge and gather my friends out to wiaheke island where I used to live for a girlie weekend!

Hot tub
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stardust1965 in reply toBettybuckets

Beth that’s an excellent idea and will create those wonderful memories you and your friends will treasure. I see the weather is being kind to you. Hope you’re having fun and that it’s a good distraction for you.

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Bettybuckets in reply tostardust1965

Today I had fun being allowed back into my old life and spent all day in court fighting to stop drudging and dumping out by our pristine island of wiaheke. Most people wouldn’t go on vacation ti sit in court all day. But I was grateful to represent with just one other member of Protect our Gulf and our lawyer as we went up against 14 lawyers for the big business interests that want to dump snd dredge. It was a weird thing to be back in Nz court after moving to usa 18 months ago. It was like snapping me back into an old life… and I have only been back one week in Nz.

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Tolife_18

What a rollecoaster, but you ride it well. I admire your resilience and will to live your best life. You’re such an inspiration!

Keep going and may your scans be good!

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Bettybuckets in reply toTolife_18

yours too my friend and when they aren’t let’s pray for the grace to bear it

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Georgelila

love your energy and go go attitude . Breathe and don’t let those inept MRI people mess up your awesome trip to NZ- a bucket place of my own. I too get thru this journey by staying active. The worst ever thing happened that I tore my plantars fascia (I was a runner) and have been in an orthopedic boot for 6 weeks and counting. Seriously like is this a joke or something. My only respite from MBC is exercise !! I will get better and will reclaim my life and energy I’m praying. In the meantime hang in there and ENJOY your trip (unless this is an old post) but your energy and stamina inspires me and I’m waiting for the day my scan says NED.

Hugs

Elizabeth

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Bettybuckets in reply toGeorgelila

hi Gigi- we sound alike… this fall has knocked my whole body making me feel unwell even though the PET scan was practically NED.. my doctor doesn’t use those terms. I’m here in Nz just having a ball shuffling by into my old life. Going to a friends daughters 21st party l, today invited to fight for no dredge dumping at the high court… with my old advocacy group. This just makes me feel alive and part of things again!

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Georgelila in reply toBettybuckets

I love it. Your attitude rocks. I have a poster on my wall with a kitten looking into a reflection in water of a tiger and it says MINDSET IS EVERYTHNG. That’s what I cling to. You enjoy yourself and there is nothing like feeling like we are back in our old lives even if it’s for a little bit. And I LOVE the nickname Gigi have not heard that before and gonna keep it. Hugs, Elizabeth

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mizcaliflower in reply toGeorgelila

What's NED? Thanks!

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Bettybuckets in reply tomizcaliflower

some doctors will tell pts they are NED when their is “ no evidence of disease

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mudakurag

Fingers crossed for next. MRI and both happy for you ( and a tiny bit envious) to have had just a great trip!

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Bettybuckets in reply tomudakurag

oh to be 21 again!

Oh to be young again!
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November1944

hi Betty, you make me proud to be a New Zealander, and hope you continue to enjoy your holiday and the sun keeps shining. I also admire your drive and pragmatic attitude. Take care.

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