I'm 39 years old, married with 4 children. My mother has been diagnosed with Breast Cancer (IDC) again. This is 17 years after her first diagnosis which was treated with a lumpectomy and radiation. This time around she's getting a mastectomy with reconstruction. She's leaving the other breast alone. I want to give her the best care possible post-surgery, as she will be staying with me during recovery. I would love to hear some "to do's" and some "what not to do's" and to also better understand what she will likely go through both physically and psychologically through this journey.