I am a 75 yr old widow, just diagnosed w/breast cancer! I am trying to wrap my head around it but my emotions are all over the place!! One day I know what I am going to do, the next, I don't. My daughter had breast cancer 8 yes at & chose the most aggressive approach km as texting, chemo & radiation, as she wanted to make sure it was all gone! She is a nurse & has been giving me info, but she lives in NY & I am in SC! I feel alone, confused, mad as heck, scared, afraid & my insides are swirling around Can't sleep, not much of an appetite, etc! I am still recovering from an accident that broke both knees & both femurs, leaving me w/little use of my legs at the moment! So this is like a double-whammy, of sorts! My Dr said if I had a mastectomy I wouldn't have to have radiation. If I have a lumpectomy I would need 6 weeks of radiation. No biopsy has been done. They are going by the mammogram & ultrasound results. They feel a biopsy would just put me through another diagnostic test & feel fairly certain we would be at the same choices as right now! What to do, what to do!!! Can anyone shed some light on any of this??? Please. My thoughts & prayers are with all of you with this horrendous diagnosis!!