My husband has PSP, diagnosed with it early 2022, before that he was diagnosed with MSA in 2021. Three weeks ago he went into a residential home as I couldn’t cope with him at home anymore and we have no close family living nearby. We did have carers in every morning to shower and dress him though.
The home he is now in is very nice and they do lots of activities with the residents. I thought he would be happy there although obviously he would rather be at home.
However, he is constantly accusing me of having an affair, stealing his money and trying to kill him. I understand that in his mind this is absolutely real and nothing will alter that. I try to reassure him and tell him that it’s not true but nothing works. I can only take so much of this before I feel like my head is exploding . It’s so upsetting and I feel like everything I do is wrong. Recently his sister and daughter came to visit him and they both were critical of the home and I just feel like saying well if you can do better then go ahead.
I know there’s nothing I can do but I feel so fed up